... and what should he expect from you?

I'm asking this question in relation to a thread I posted in the Relationship Section, but I'm just curious from a female's perspective as to what you all expect from a guy you just met on your first and/or second and third dates.

Do you expect the guy to make moves on you physically? Or do you expect that he keeps his hands to himself (not even holding your waist or hands) and just talk and get to know you? Would you prefer the guy to show some physical interest?

Conversely, what do you all expect a guy to expect from YOU? If you're really into him, what signs, if any, would you show on the first/second date?