for the ladies

Tony J · #1 Mar 28, 2007, 10:24 AM

Why do young women seem to play games, 18-23?

Here are some examples.

1. If I call (show interest) they do not answer but if I do not call back then they call me (reciprocate interest) the next day or two.

2. If I treat a girl with respect and dignity then they are not interested but if I am an a-hole then they are interested.

3. A girl makes up an excuse to cancel a date rather than just saying she doesn't want to go.

4. Making plans with a girl and she says "I call you" but doesn't call. Why can't they call and say I decided I am not doing anything with you today or get lost or something?

These are just a few examples that I have ran across lately. I do not see why a girl would want to be treated crappy or like a piece of meat. Also, why can't someone pick up the phone and say "F" you or whatever rather than call screening (not just women do this)? Everyone has cell phones these days and I know that everyone takes them everywhere with them, it's a mobile tracking device.

The reason I am asking these questions is because I am ruminating about these issues because college women are driving me crazy. Too much BS for me.

always_hot · Mar 29, 2007, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Tony J

Why do young women seem to play games, 18-23?

Here are some examples.

1. If I call (show interest) they do not answer but if I do not call back then they call me (reciprocate interest) the next day or two.

2. If I treat a girl with respect and dignity then they are not interested but if I am an a-hole then they are interested.

3. A girl makes up an excuse to cancel a date rather than just saying she doesn't want to go.

4. Making plans with a girl and she says "I call you" but doesn't call. Why can't they call and say I decided I am not doing anything with you today or get lost or something?

These are just a few examples that I have ran across lately. I do not see why a girl would want to be treated crappy or like a piece of meat. Also, why can't someone pick up the phone and say "F" you or whatever rather than call screening (not just women do this)? Everyone has cell phones these days and I know that everyone takes them everywhere with them, it's a mobile tracking device.

The reason I am asking these questions is because I am ruminating about these issues because college women are driving me crazy. Too much BS for me.

MY BOYFRIEND SAYS WOMEN ARE MORE EMOTIONAL THEN LOGICAL. SO WE TEND TO DO STUPID THAT SOMTIMES, ACTUALLY MOST OF THE TIME YOU MEN JUST WON'T UNDERSTAND. ALSO AS FAR AS THE NOT ANWERING RIGHT AWAY, THEY MIGHT NOT WANT TO SEEM TOO INTERESTED. THAT TURNS SOME GUYS OFF. OT THEY MIGHT BE PLAYING HARD TO GET. WOMEN ARE VERY COMPLICTED! HALF THE TIME I DON'T UNDERSTAND MY SELF.

texxxas · Mar 29, 2007, 10:49 AM

haha i'm in that age range, it's been proven that girls between the 18-25 prefer a-holes, don't know why, it's the manly dominating thing, i guess...weird, cause i'm like that too, sweet guys get tooo sweet and cheesy, it gets annoying, we don't like to have puppies, we'll walk all over them, however, s are very macho, they know what they want, they go after it, they make us wait, and we like the anticipation, it's not a game, it's just natural, we have it programmed in our head that we shouldn't pick up when a guy calls and blah blah blah, or sometimes its simply because we don't like that guy, i don't know, im sorry babe, lol 18-23 year old females, are difficult and we suck

Rockabilly1955mama · Mar 29, 2007, 10:51 AM

Ok, there are a couple of answers to this question. It all depends in which type of lady you are dealing with. Most gals do this becuase they don't want to get hurt. Some just play hard to get, and the others are just down right tramps. Women are emotional....I mean hell, look what we have to go through...but thats not the point.

1. If I call (show interest) they do not answer but if I do not call back then they call me (reciprocate interest) the next day or two.
1) You have to give a woman some time.

2. If I treat a girl with respect and dignity then they are not interested but if I am an a-hole then they are interested.
2) Most women are use to the whole a-hole typicall guys, once she finds out what respect is coming from a guy, she will appreicate it. It may take some time for her to realize that though.

3. A girl makes up an excuse to cancel a date rather than just saying she doesn't want to go.
3) Woman are full of excuses. Some are afriad of saying no beucase it'll hurt you. Once a gal makes up and excuse for say no, just move on.

4. Making plans with a girl and she says "I call you" but doesn't call. Why can't they call and say I decided I am not doing anything with you today or get lost or something?
4) Once agian, women are afraid to hurt others. Especailly when it comes to the fellas.

But don't sweat it sweetie, you seem like a nice guy. A rare one at that. Hell, the world needs more men like you! Haha. You'll find your princess sooner or later that will apprecaite your kindness.

spoilsport · Sep 7, 2009, 01:10 AM

Tony, are you asking too many girls out?
If so they might know instinctively and want to back out.
Why dont you wait and let some of them come to you?

The more you chase the more they wil l run away. the more relaxed you are the more they will come to you on thier own.
if you praise them let it be genuine /real praise.
dont try o impress them.dont try to offend them
be yourself and wait for the right girl.
good luck