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If a guy is a nice bloke, why would a woman not be flattered and complimented by his attention !
If attracted to beautiful woman, which is natural and the first stage of attraction, then liking her personality to move to an emotional / physical connection. But !!!
Beautiful women not attracted to man, then what is the way forward ?
Settle with someone not attractive / live alone or face continues rejection ?
What sort of life is that, no future, no prospect of family.... No point to continue, nothing to continue for.
Because maybe she feels like you're pursuing her. Maybe she feels like she just wants to be friends and you're pushing it. Maybe she just thinks you're a creeper. Maybe she has a boyfriend and doesn't want to express how flattered she is, or maybe she simply doesn't feel flattered at all. It depends completely on what type of woman you're dealing with, what her situation is, what mood she was in, and probably a million other variables.
A beautiful woman is not attracted to a specific man so she will settle with someone not attractive and live alone to face continuous rejection???
Um, there are plenty of other fish in the sea. If a woman isn't attracted to one man, maybe this just isn't her type of man! She has a whole world of guys out there- and one of them is her soul mate. There are many options out there for a beautiful woman. I don't quite understand why this question is so difficult for you to figure out.....
If attracted to beautiful woman, which is natural and the first stage of attraction, then liking her personality to move to an emotional / physical connection. But !!!
Beautiful women not attracted to man, then what is the way forward ?
Settle with someone not attractive / live alone or face continues rejection ?
What sort of life is that, no future, no prospect of family.... No point to continue, nothing to continue for.
Okay, let me see if I got this straight.
You're attracted to a beautiful woman but she isn't attracted to you.
Now you want to know if you should settle for someone not attractive or live alone or keep trying with the woman that isn't attracted to you and face rejection.
If I got it right then here's my advice.
1. Write clearer so that we can understand what you're asking.
2. There are other women out there, a lot of attractive women, but I would suggest being a little less shallow and stop focusing on the outward appearance only.
Are you also saying that if you can't have this one specific woman then your have no future?
I have to ask - why is beauty SO important? Why do you believe that your life would be less that perfect if you don't have a beautiful woman, and have (heaven forbid) a less attractive woman?
I just don't get why this is SO important to you. I would have thought that kindness, consideration, sense of humor, intelligence and balance (to name a few) would have been far more important qualities in a prospective partner than 'beauty'.
There are so many beautiful people out there - they may not have perfect eyes, noses, or bodies but they are genuine loving human beings. Sadly you're not able to see them because of your blind obsession.
Until you do some deep thinking about yourself and your superficial motivations you will never attract anyone 'beautiful' into your life. The people you meet will only reflect your own superficiality back to you, and you will continue to be unhappy because of your unrealistic expectations.
I forgot to add - as I don't want to keep banging on about this - that when you love someone they are beautiful to you!
I think that my husband is just gorgeous and when I look at him, although he's not Brad Pitt, I think he's the most handsome man in the world.
Gemini, I feel the same way.
I have to say, there are people that I've met that are drop dead gorgeous, but the longer you know them the uglier they become, because their souls are rotten.
Then there are people that aren't much to look at but when you get to know them they shine like the brightest star in the sky. They are truly beautiful, because of who they are on the inside.
It's sad that there are people who only concentrate on outward beauty and don't give people a chance to show the beauty they have inside.
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