Asked Aug 1, 2010, 12:50 PM
I'm in a very uncomfortable situation at the moment. It seems I've fallen in love with two people which isn't uncommon for my sexuality. I'm polyamorous meaning...Polyamory (from Greek πολυ [poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor [love]) is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved.
The problem is one guy I've been dating for a year and 8 months. He's great to me, treats me like a queen and understanding but the thing is with him he's not doing good in school and our future doesn't look exactly what I'd want it to.
The secound guy I met online. We have an amazing connection and talk every night. The problem here is the distance. We're planning on meeting in half a year and if everything goes well we'll move in together at the end of the year. He would be able to take care of me because he has a good paying job and money. He's also older which is a huge turn on for me. [Don't worry this isn't a serial killer or anything
I broke up with my first boyfriend but now were kind of sort of together.. I love him dearly and don't want him to be hurt but I just don't see myself with him in the long term but when we break it off I fall apart. I have to choose one or the other because being in a 3-way releshionship won't work for these jelous men.. It's a hard choice and I don't like hurting anyone's feelings but my own are at stake here too, I try and put the pro's and con's on paper and nothing is clear. I'm causing myself stress and heartache because everyday it's the same problem on my mind.