Ok i have been going out with my boyfriend for a few months now but lately i haven't been able to talk to him! and i've met his best friend and he helps me whenever i need it. but i've been talking to him more then my boyfriend and i'm worried i might fall for him and stop loving my boyfriend. what do i do?! i think i may like him more

victoria_mitchell

Either tell your boyfriend and be upfront and honest with him, or ditch the friend and stop talking to him. If you REALLY love your boyfriend this thought wouldn't even cross your mind and if it did you would forget it almost imidiatley........ you can't be in ANY relationship without trust if you can't be honest with your boyfriend then there's no trust and if you end up being with his friend then how will his friend ever trust you either? I mean you left his friend to be with him what's to say you wont do it to him to???

Dennis777

Hello Sam.

You have two things to deal with. One is do you still Love your Boyfriend, if you do then give him 100% of your time and slow down the time you spend with his friend. If you don't Love him then break up with him. Not because of his friend but because you don't have the same feelings for him as you did. Never Ever break up with one boy to go with another. It never works that way. You need to take some time between each relationship to find yourself and what you want from life. Your life is always changing so it can take time to know what you want from life.

Good Luck
Dennis777

tr3sha

okay, so here is what's going to happen. you're going to want to follow your instincts of playing the good girlfriend and do the right thing. surely that's what you're supposed to do since everyone is telling you that, right? but in reality, the way it will really pan out is you might end up hurting your boyfriend. clearly you like his friend and clearly things will happen between you two (if that haven't already). if this guy really cared about your boyfriend as a friend, and if you really cared about your boyfriend- these thoughts would not even be happening. so just send him packing. who cares?

MikeElt

You should take some time off from your friend until you know exactly what you feel. It will come clear.

Andreas_111

This is not good. It is the WORSE thing to do to go out with your boyfriends best friend!! Think how he would feel? VERY BETRAYED...
Why do you girls do that? What are you thinking???

Sam_Felgen

i wasn't ment to fall for his best friend and if it wern't for his best friend i would never of met my boyfriend!!! his best friend had also said to me (after i had helped him once) if it wern't for you going out with my best friend i would kiss you. i was soo suprised!!!

rankrank55

Like someone else stated...you can either tell your bf and start a relationship with the best friend or you can end conversations with the best friend. No matter what you have to go with your heart but be careful not to burn bridges. Just remember though...how would the relationship with the best friend work...wouldn't he still be buds with your "ex"? What if he feels threatened that you may linger back to your "ex"? Go with the flow sweetie and think about everything that you do before you do it...be wise!

Lotz_of_Questions

Stop talking to the Friend. You have a boyfriend. If you feel you don't like your boyfriend break up with him before you go any further with the other friend.

Good Luck !

FrOsT_bItE

HEY MAN! NO-ONE SAYS THAT TO MY BEST FRIEND! SHE DIDN'T BETRAY HER BF! EVERY GIRL (AND BOY) HAS FEELINGS FOR OTHER PEOPLE OF THE DIFFERENT GENDER! you wanna say that 2 someone, don't say it to someone who feels very hurt! (p.s- Don't feel hurt Sammie. There's other people on this page who have actual answers Don't feel down about yourself)