Im a Heavier person and i would like to ask a girl out that i work with

Homegirl 50 · Jul 25, 2012, 12:27 PM

You can ask her out as a friend and just get to know her. Talking to a girl will give you confidence.
You can even share with her that are considering going back to the military. This way she knows what's up.

Wondergirl · Jul 25, 2012, 12:33 PM

Ask her out for pie and coffee to chat about getting back into the military or spend time doing some innocent thing like going to the zoo or to an art museum -- not a date but just a few hours together chatting and sharing time doing something you both enjoy.

Robiel · Jul 25, 2012, 12:59 PM

What I wanna advice u is that don't be afraid to ask a girl out. The last thing she can do is no. And u might say u will be embarrassed cause u are coo workers or class mate or what ever the reason might be. To tell u frankly 2 weeks ago i asked outmy class mate but unfortunately she said no cause sha has a boy friend. Well nothing happend to I'm still surving and we are still friends with. Everytime u wanna ask out a girl don't take it hard no is not a death penalty. To tell u the truth I got a lot of yes and no answers. But I'm not a quitter and girls also wants to be asked whether they say yes or no.

shank117 · Jul 26, 2012, 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Robiel

What I wanna advice u is that don't be afraid to ask a girl out. The last thing she can do is no. And u might say u will be embarrassed cause u are coo workers or class mate or what ever the reason might be. To tell u frankly 2 weeks ago i asked outmy class mate but unfortunately she said no cause sha has a boy friend. Well nothing happend to I'm still surving and we are still friends with. Everytime u wanna ask out a girl don't take it hard no is not a death penalty. To tell u the truth I got a lot of yes and no answers. But I'm not a quitter and girls also wants to be asked whether they say yes or no.

the only problem is im kinda a bigger person not overly big but 257 pounds and that kinda hinders me should i take a week to look for signs???

Homegirl 50 · Jul 26, 2012, 08:27 AM

Just ask her out. You snooze you loose. What kind of signs would you be looking for?

Wondergirl · Jul 26, 2012, 08:45 AM

One of my favorite guys is about 6'3" and 300-some pounds with flaming red hair. (He stands out in a crowd!) Of course, his size is noticeable, but he is such a sweet, friendly guy who really cares about others, so after the first two minutes, you stop thinking about what a giant he is.

Like I would tell anyone, be clean, wear clean clothes, have fresh breath, comb your hair, and care about the other person more than about yourself.

shank117 · Jul 26, 2012, 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Just ask her out. You snooze you loose. What kind of signs would you be looking for?

i dont know i read an article about looking for her to smile a certain way to watch her to see if she tries to glance at me when im not looking her direction just stuff like that also is it a good thing that she remembers all the stuff i tell her and repeats it to others exactly the way i said it( girls have never dont this before) i dont want to mistake this as her just listening cause most girls ive tried to talk to just say uh huh and act like they are listening until i finish but i still listen to them and if i ask her out is asking her if she wants to see a movie with me too cliche or should i say something deeper

Homegirl 50 · Jul 26, 2012, 09:42 PM

Your post are really hard to follow, as you don't use any punctuations; periods or commas. I don't know where one sentence ends and another begins or what your saying for that matter.
Just ask her out. Don't play games looking for signs or seeing if they are really listening to you. Just ask her out. She will either say yes or no.

shank117 · Jul 26, 2012, 10:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Your post are really hard to follow, as you don't use any punctuations; periods or commas. I don't know where one sentence ends and another begins or what your saying for that matter.
Just ask her out. Don't play games looking for signs or seeing if they are really listening to you. Just ask her out. She will either say yes or no.

Sorry about the punctuation. I just trying to type what I'm thinking. I guess though i should just ask her out but im afraid that if i ask her and she says no it would create an akward stituation at work. I work in retail at a sports and outdoors store called Academy. I have to help her stock shelfs all the time and she ask for my help because im taller and she is kinda short. If she says no then it could just be akward when my boss tells me to stock shelves with her. But i feel a real connection with her. I have not asked a girl out since freshman year in high school when i was 15. I have been down on myself and have told myself i should wait until after college to date. My family has allways told me that i souldnt get a girl pregnate until after college so ive waited and waited and have been passing by girl after girl with no feelings but this one just caught me offguard that i like here for who she is not her body. Its not about sex at all in my mind its something deeper that i feel.

Im a Heavier person and i would like to ask a girl out that i work with

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