Well i don't have time to date anyone practically. So for the last 7 months i have been tryin e-datin. so, there was this girl whom i really like and was with her for like 2 months when i screwed it all up and she dumped me. I was really sorry for what i did but she wouldnt forgive me. I thought i had to move on so i dated this another girl and shes the sweetest thing to ever happen in my life and we are together for the last three months. The problem is that after all this time my ex wants me back! Since i havent yet met both of them i dont think im in love with either of them but i like both of them. Ppl with experiences help me..does e-datin work? They are both from the USA and i'm from Australia! And i wont be able to go to the states for another two years.Both of them thinks thats not a problem. Should i get back with my ex? if yes what should i say to my present gf?

Altenweg

I have to spread the love Artsy but I agree.

There is a difference though. Being friends with people online and trying to establish a romantic relationship, two different things.

Friends have no reason to lie, but possible partners, well, they do that in real life, it's just easier on the net.

That's my take on it anyway. I just hear so many stories of internet predators and people lying on dating sites, I'd be wary.

Now, all of you, my friends, the people I adore, I have no qualms about that.

artlady

We have to open this up for discussion.
You raised a good point.
I like it That a girl ,

There are long lasting marriages and here from on line meeting and there are success stories,and there are friendships where you cry and You love and its real!!!

I cant stand when I hear the net looked at as a Bad thing,

I have seen the nastiness.
I have seen the best and that is where I hang out at .

I believe in the power of prayer.
I believe that when I have asked my friends to pray for me,hay sompin happens good

Hay baby theres a change a comin!

Altenweg

The net is both good and bad. It is what you make it, sadly many people make it a bad thing.

There is tons of info on the net, everything at your fingertips, but I've seen info that is dead on wrong and that's a scary thing if that's what you're relying on.

I've belonged to other sites like this and I have to say, none of them compare. The other sites are poorly run, people get away with everything and anything. I admit that there are times when I'd really like to swear at someone, but I'm not allowed, that's what makes this site what it is.

The people here are wonderful caring people. Those that aren't don't last long. This isn't the norm, AMHD is the exception to the rule, at least in my experience.

I wouldn't want to date someone that I can't talk to face to face, that I can't hold. There's something about physical contact, and I'm not talking about sex, that matters in a relationship, IMO.

That's my 2 cents.

talaniman

To much of anything is as bad as not enough. To put ALL your eggs in this on line dating thing is crazy. There has to be a balance with the online world, and the real one, just to keep yourself real, and for a healthy perspective of YOUR world.

punchxcore

There's nothing wrong with online dating, as long as you meet the person in a decent amount of time. I talked to my ex online for about a week before we met. We met on a dating site. We lived an hour and a half from each other so it was a semi-long distance relationship, but we still saw each other every weekend for the most part. But if you haven't even met either of them yet, you can't even know what they're truly like, if you even have a connection with them at all.

keshawn

I'm glad i asked the question here. Thanks to you all.It was a great help gettin advices from wise ppl like you. I'm feelin much better. I realised it was time that i get back to reality.I'm still talkin to them but as i've been told im just waitin for my time now. As of now i've to get back to work. Thank you again!

Rize

Thank you!