Thank you to the person who merged the threads. To those responding, please note the post that was added.
Sorry, but you aren't going to get any support from me for this relationship. You have repeatedly gone behind your aunt's back to stay in touch with him after she has made it clear she is against this relationship. He should have left you alone instead of encouraging you.
I don't agree with lying to you or threatening him. I think she should have contacted the police and reported him for contributing to the delinquency of a minor. There might be other charges depending on what you haven't told us.
Your actions speak much louder than anything else does. Sneaking out to meet up with him. Getting upset about her lying when you have been for how long?
I wouldn't trust you or him if I were her. If you were my child, you would be wishing for a way to win back my trust. You say she told you the truth 'out of spite'. I doubt that. Anger maybe. I would be very angry, too. Love, frustration, worry, concern, and a whole list of other emotions that you are too young to understand because all you see is this adult who wants to play games with a child.
Why are you living with your aunt?