PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS AND HELP ME!!!

ok i have this friend that iv dated a fue times but we cant seem to stay together...i realy care 4 him alot but he has a bad abbet of cheating! i stopd talking to hm 4 about a month and tryd to get over him (that didnt work) but as soon as i came back from my summer trip...i get a call from him ad he says how sorry he was 4 all the bad things that he did and he wants to make it rite....so i agreed to go out with him this weekend and try it agen

well yesterday i found out that he has a girlfriend!!! my heart is broken agen!!! my friends think i should go out with him and do the same thing that he is doing to me and make him feel the pain...but i dont know how...and i dont know if i want to....i realy love this boy sooooooo much....what do i do???

LearningAsIGo

I think the best revenge is to stop talking to him. Cheating isn't a "habit" its disrespect and selfishness all rolled into one. He's being cruel to you and you should just stay away from him. Show him you can move on and don't need his bull!

GlindaofOz

Have you ever heard the saying "the best revenge is living well"? Drop this guy and pretend that he has fallen off the face of the earth. If he calls do not answer, when you see him be polite but don't linger in a conversation. Just move on with your life and find someone who can keep it in his pants!

You deserve to have someone NOT cheat on you.

canadianzuzzie

Any revenge on him will simply keep the door open for him to hurt you more. He obviously does not share your affection and in my experience will keep on coming back (to your detriment) as long as you allow him. leave it alone...it will never be what you want it to be...next time he calls (and he probably will) simply tell him you are not interested. There are lots of great guys out there, don't waste yourself on one who is not worthy of you.

runninggirl

Don't waste your time, he's a loser.

MayMsredrose

I strongly agree with Glinda & learning ....from my personal experience my ex bf gets crazy and do anything to come back to me once i give him the feeling that i go over him and am living & enjoying my life without him and ignoring him....this person does not deserve your love ....once a man cheat on you once he will do it again and again and i think you had experienced that by yourself....another thing you had accepted him back after he cheated on you the first time and he did it again ...believe me if you forgive him and accept him again back he will cheat on you again because he knows that no matter what he hurts you you will come bakc to him so why he should bother himself about how you feel??? forget about him ...and find yourself someone who respect you & deserve your feelings..

Ms. Redrose

softbalgrl1331

my advice is dont try to get revenge...if you really love him you still wouldnt want him to feel like he has made you feel. if you lay down with the dogs- you'll come out with fleas (from hannah montana fyi so u dont give me the credit for that saying) Besides, cheating might become a bit of a habbit and i dont think you would want anyone to feel very hurt

sevvy661

ok the exact thing happened to me..... wat i did was i told him that i knew and told how misurable he would be if all his other gf's new. i also told him the conaquinces of are freindship that was being torn apart. i couldnt believe that it acually worked!! maybe u should consider doin that!!

~sevvy~

stonewilder

Your friends are very immature. Hurting him is not going to take away your pain and even if it makes you feel better for a time it won't last long. The best thing you can do for yourself is to show him that you don't need or want him anymore. If you stick with that you will realize that you do deserve better. As the song goes (old old song) What's love got to do with it?! When a person hurts you, lies and cheats that is not love. A fool in love is indeed a fool. You don't really want to be his fool do you?

nkychic

No no no no! Why stoop to his level. If you do that to him, you are NO better than he is. Don't waste your time trying to "get revenge". Like Glinda said...just live a good life. Let him go. Move on. Enjoy the company of others. Don't use someone for your own foolish game, it isn't right!