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Asked May 30, 2012, 02:21 AM — 7 Answers
My boyfriend goes out every Friday its really frustrating because he turns his phone of because his friends tell him too because they dont like me so i don't hear from him till the next day soo i dont know what hes doing in town hes pretty flirtatious so its allways running through my mind and always has girls tryna contact him but he doesnt reply. when ever i confront him and say i don't like him going out every weekend he says i promise ill never do it again and then comes the weekend and hes out again. its driving me crazy. plus hes a angry sort of person so pretty much when ever i say you do u actually love me he gets angry. and everyone tells me to leave him and i end up dumping him but he apologises and i go running back i think he does what he likes because he knows ill always come back to him. I dont really want to leave him i love him to much i just want him to change. He was soo careing and the start and wanted to doo everything with me now its like hed rather spend most of his time with his friends. i need some advice??

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May 30, 2012, 07:20 AM


You make it stop by leaving him and not taking him back.
He is not going to change. You need to change what you're doing. Stop taking him back.
He does not sound like a winner to me.
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Jun 2, 2012, 06:39 PM
I wish it was that easy. he has been trying too stop going out i think hes a alcoholic and cant help himself on a friday hes on his way home waits at home 4 me to finish then his stupid friends come over and pick him up and its like he cant say noo. he trys to make me come with him but not anymore cause we fight to much when we drink together now. any other advice ?? other then leaveing him.
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Jun 2, 2012, 06:48 PM


Stay and put up with it.
When you get sick and tired of this you'll do what you know you need to do. Leave him.
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Jun 2, 2012, 07:05 PM


Yes just stay and put up with it, put up with the girls he is holding when he is out, the ones he talks to when he is not with you. So you know he cares more about his friends than you, he likes to party more than he likes you.

And you don't go out with him ?
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Jun 2, 2012, 07:13 PM
i guess. i dont go out with him because i hate his friends and they hate me. he doesnt go out with other chicks he drinks at his friends house with his boys and there partners ive been with him a couple of times and i dont like his crowd of friends soo i stoped going with them they hate me because they think i get him into to much trouble so there always baging on me in his ear. flirtings alright anything further and thats when i would walk away i dont put up with guys who cheat, and hes a straight up person and tells me if he does anything i just dont trust girls theres girls out there who will keep trying till they get exzactly what they want so its not the fact that i dont trust him because i do hes nevr given me reason to not, i just want him to stop going out and spend more time with me.
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Jun 2, 2012, 07:13 PM
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Jun 2, 2012, 08:25 PM
He's not going to change. You keep taking him back so he has no incentive to change and will just continue doing what he's doing.

There's no simple answer here...leave him or keep putting up with it.
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