My girlfriend and I are in our sixties both married before. we were engaged and she now wants to go back to dating(more space) she wants me to call before coming over.She has a male single business partner that they meet at each others house for business prep. she says they have never been envolved. My past experience is when a woman suddenly wants you to call before coming over there is something or someone she doesn't want you to see. Am I wrong here?

tickle

that would be my feeling about a situation like that

stonewilder

I guess that depends on how you have acted in the past where he is concerned. Did you act like a jealous fool? Have they been meeting at each others house before you and her started seeing each other? If the answer to those questions are yes then I would make you call first too. On the other hand, if she really loves you she wouldn't want to do anything that might hurt you or make you feel insecure so she would probably compromise and meet him at the office instead. But would that even make you feel less insecure? I don't know you so I can't really say for sure if you are just insecure or if she is a cheating whore.

s_cianci

Probably not. I'd back off and give her the space she says she wants. As a 60-something single man you're a free spirit so take advantage and enjoy. Don't throw all of your beans into one pot. Life's too short to fart around with women who want to hide things and be sneaky so don't get caught up in that trap.

amber_gilbert

I'm not sure, but if you have doubts, you should tell her how you feel. If she gets really upset, then she's not being honest. Either way, at least you will know. GOOD LUCK