Does a dress make a difference?

whyohwhy · #1 Mar 19, 2008, 02:05 PM

It seems like when I wear a cute little dress and high heels, I get a lot more attention from men. They seem to treat me more like a lady....jump to open the door, etc. than when I am wearing pants w/ a top. Is there something to that? Do men really like women to look super feminine/girly? Is it sexual....fantasy of easy access or whatever? Is it that they get to see a little leg and that is a turn on?

amricca · Mar 19, 2008, 02:12 PM

yes, the nicer you look the more men will notice you and hold open doors for you..etc. Men like to look at attractive women and wearing a dress or being all done up will get you more attention.

sasachel · Mar 19, 2008, 07:20 PM

I know when I wear a dress or heals I get ALOT more of attention than I would wearing jeans or sneakers. Some men love women in a sexy little dress with high heels on. and Other men love women with just some jeans, a t-shirt and some nikes on. And men do treat me more lady like when I wear a dress. So being dressed up will get you more attention. Let me ask you. When you go to the mall.... Do you notice women who are dressed up or dressed provacatively more rather than a woman wearing pants and shoes?? Sure everybody does. Dress to impress right?

JBeaucaire · Mar 19, 2008, 10:50 PM

Absolutely. Men are visual, they instinctively respond to visual stimulus MUCH more than anything you ever say. Even "I love you" is less stimulating than a beautiful v-neck cocktail dress worn and aimed specifically at some guy.

Remember that when you're trying to motivate men, we're much easier to manipulate when you use the proper tools.

I'm just saying.

whyohwhy · Mar 20, 2008, 08:08 AM

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Originally Posted by JBeaucaire

Remember that when you're trying to motivate men, we're much easier to manipulate when you use the proper tools.

Thanks....good to know!!!!! I just bought the perfect little dress and spikey pumps!

whyohwhy · Mar 20, 2008, 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by sasachel

When you go to the mall.... Do you notice women who are dressed up or dressed provacatively more rather than a woman wearing pants and shoes?? Sure everybody does. Dress to impress right?

Of course I notice them....but, as a man....would I want a long term relationship with a woman that dresses provacatively? Once I seduce them with my body, how do keep them? (THEM...hahahaha...one will do)

JBeaucaire · Mar 20, 2008, 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by whyohwhy

Of course I notice them....but, as a man....would I want a long term relationship with a woman that dresses provacatively? Once I seduce them with my body, how do keep them? (THEM...hahahaha...one will do)

It makes me sad when people show how clearly they think that dating someone and HAVING them means you do different things.

If a guy falls for the girl he is dating, why in the world would she want to STOP doing/being those things once he gets her.

bluerose · Mar 20, 2008, 10:32 AM

Men are respond visually and women respond emotionally.. Enough said. lol

ISneezeFunny · Mar 20, 2008, 10:41 AM

however, it's just the same with women...

I'm sure you notice a guy who's clean cut and well groomed and is wearing a suit rather than that bummy guy with shaggy hair and is wearing shirt + shorts with remnants of last night's dinner on it.

whyohwhy · Mar 20, 2008, 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by JBeaucaire

It makes me sad when people show how clearly they think that dating someone and HAVING them means you do different things.

If a guy falls for the girl he is dating, why in the world would she want to STOP doing/being those things once he gets her.

I wouldn't stop dressing cute and sexy even after I had him. I wouldn't change for anyone. Been there done that. But, what would keep him interested? And again....does a guy want to be with the girl that attracts a lot of attention long term or is it just the thrill of the chase and it's over?



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