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How does this girl feel about me?
Asked Oct 6, 2011, 12:59 AM
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17 Answers Ok my problem with girls is I cannot text them first, and I don't know why. I hate the feeling of just texting them first. I met a really really attractive girl in college and we hung out twice and both times we got drunk. She invited me back to her room both times and all we did was talk on her bed for like 3 hours. And she told me like 300 times that she really needs to get to know people in order to start talking to them. And I told her my problem is texting girls first. She texted for about a week and then stopped. I didn't really care sense its college and there's more girls out there but then she talked to my room mate and asked him why I've been acting different. Anyways we kind of got into an argument, but we got over it and we are hanging out again and its better than ever. She always tickles me, and punches my arm and stuff like that. Ill tell her if she punches me ill punch her (in a flirting way) and she'll punch me. I think its because she wants me to touch her but I could be wrong. Anyways, my problem is...every time she's on facebook she's always saying how hot these random guys are. So does she like me or doesn't she? Because if I liked a girl I wouldn't just sit there and say how hot girls are. Another problem is every time I go and say goodbye she just says bye. No sign of she wants a kiss, or a hug, or anything. So I just leave with an empty feeling. What should I do? And how do you think she feels about me? |
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Is there any particular reason you don't like texting first? You feel like you're pestering them or something? It does indeed sound like she likes you, i'm basing that on the young college flirtiness. I was like that when i was young(er). The facebook thing could possibly be a cry for attention to you. You may be sending out mixed signals yourself. And instead of waiting for a sign to hug her, just do it! It should be easier to figure out where you stand after that. X Dani | ||||
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| To: DaniCalifornia see the thing is though is she is a really outgoing girl. IDK if shes just being friendly with the punches and tickling or not. And when she calls a guy hot i ask her how she thinks he's hot and she'll go into great detail about him. And when i said she told me like 300 times she really needs to get to know people in order to start talking to them, i meant like talking more than friends. I mean, its been probably a month since we first started talking, and theres been progress but the most ive ever done physically with her is tickle her knees. Cause shes really jumpy if i like go to touch her arm or something. It seems as if shes defensive. Honestly if i had to give you my opinion, its that she doesnt like me...but the little things she does like the way she looks at me tells me she does. IM SO CONFUSEDDD  | ||||
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| The thing you are missing is you are spending that time, so enjoy it without all these other problems. thats what dating is all about. As you learn to communicate, you will, but let me warn you of pushing to hard, to fast, as many females prefer to be comfortable, but not EASY. Have some confidence and show her a great time and see where it leads. Its only been a month. Calling and talking is better than texting, but texting is an easier thing to do. Not as effective though when meeting someone. A lot is lost in words over a screen. Make sure you stay balanced in your social life, and have many other options for fun than JUST her. That would NOT be healthy, nor the thing to do to get attached to fast until you know more. Relax, stop worrying, and enjoy it, but don't get carried away, or disappointed if she is a mystery right now. Thats a female charm we guys love. Kisses after a date mean nothing at this point. You just want one. Don't worry about that either. | ||||
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| The reason i marked unhelpful is because shes not the type of girl that i can just open up right away. its only been a month and im waiting for the right moment. and if that means i have to wait another month than so be it. and its not like we text all the time. she lives a room down from me. but when were not with eachother were texting. oh and i dont wanna be rude...i do appreciate you guys for helping me! it does mean a lot even though i dont know you guys haha but its a lot of help just talking about it and getting other peoples insight | ||||
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