i need help.
i like this guy and i dont think he likes me back.. it began in the summer.
we had a little thing then he liked another girl. and went out with another girl.
we started talking again.. and our 'thing' became offical ..
we hooked up a bunch of times.. then he started liking my close friend.
they hooked up behind my back and both pleaded for an aoplogie.
we put it behind us..and we still had a 'thing'
he was so sure he was going to ask me out..
but it stopped.. i dont know how to get over him..
we havent talked for weeks.
just everything i do reminds me of him
everything i say
everything i look at.
im young and i need advice.
please.

maggiB

Here is the real deal...Boys do not act this way if they are truly interested in you. Never ever try to fit into a mans life....If he loves you he will always change to fit into your life...That means your dog becomes his dog...your friends become his friends...Men need to love you and follow your lead..The moment you start the process of worry and checking if he is "in to you" you have lost the battle before you start.......

Love is not hard or difficult...you do not need to ":make" things happen if it is true...they just fall into place.

In the future remember your self esteem and your grace and composure become the most attractive things about a girl.....You must hold your head high and pity the boys who missed his opportunity......

If you chase a puppy it will run...If you walk away it will follow.