how do we get her parents to let us go out alone together?

northbrookschampof08 · #1 Dec 29, 2007, 08:00 PM

we've talked about and found a soulution to my high sex drive. we love eachother and dont know how to tell her mom. its been four months and it seems quick and we know that but we want to stay together no matter what. her mom wont let us go on dates or even hang out together. we got caught making out once but come on what teens dont make out. how can we talk her mom into letting us go on a simple date like dinner and a movie, and would letting her mom come with us be a bad decision. We're both teens both virgins and yeah. i've gotten my sex drive under control i just need to know how to gain the trust of her mom for the both of us.

Wondergirl · Dec 29, 2007, 08:17 PM

You've gotten your high sex drive under control during the past three hours???

Um, if she isn't allowed to date, but you two are willing to let her mom go with you on a date, you both must be under 16 with no car or license.

Can you guess what I will say next?

Homegirl 50 · Dec 29, 2007, 08:19 PM

How old are the both of you?
If her mom thinks she is too young to date, you have to deal with it. The way you gain her trust is to respect her wishes for her child.

northbrookschampof08 · Dec 29, 2007, 08:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

You've gotten your high sex drive under control during the past three hours???

Um, if she isn't allowed to date, but you two are willing to let her mom go with you on a date, you both must be under 16 with no car or license.

Can you guess what I will say next?

ok the high sex drive isnt really under control but im gonna have to ignore it and be more mature about it.

as far as her bein too young shes not really but thats in our opinion. im 17 shes 15. but like shes the one complaining about her mom not letting us go out alone. i could care less if her mom came along. and i understand that i have to respect her moms wishes not only because its the responsible thing to do but because i can also go to jail if she makes any claim against me and since im in the national guard i'll be in a military prison or jail.
i dont want to lose this girl but i dont want her to be unhappy either.

northbrookschampof08 · Dec 29, 2007, 08:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

How old are the both of you?
If her mom thinks she is too young to date, you have to deal with it. The way ou gain her trust is to respect her wishes for her child.

yeah but my girl is the one complaining about it she wants to see more of me since im going to basic training this summer. im 17 shes 15 i realize i can get in trouble and that i have to respect her moms wishes by law but i do it by choice because its the right thing to do.

Wondergirl · Dec 29, 2007, 08:33 PM

At this point in time, since your gf is only 15, her mom's rule is what you follow, not your gf's wishes. Tell your gf to talk with her mom about this, to find out why the mom is making this rule.

Homegirl 50 · Dec 29, 2007, 08:42 PM

Then you tell your gf to chill. This is between her and her mom. You should probably stay out of it so you won't get in trouble.
Sounds like you both need a chill-out break.

talaniman · Dec 29, 2007, 09:16 PM

Your part is easy, keep it in your pants, and do what her mom says.

George_1950 · Dec 30, 2007, 06:34 PM

In Gawga, a 15 year old is considered jail bait; beware.



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