how do i make the guy i love change and win him back?

Annie2007 · #1 Oct 6, 2007, 04:52 AM

I've been 3 years with a guy and we broke up a couple of days ago.He used to be a very sweet guy but lately he turned into a selfish freak who wants things his way...or no way...i couldn't take it anymore and we broke up even if i love him very much and i can't seem to live without him...what can i do? is there a chance to turn him again into the man that used to be once, realise his mistakes and come back to me?talking to him does not help...i'm a complete mess, dunno what to do...i want him to come back to me...but changed

N0help4u · Oct 6, 2007, 08:48 AM

JH is right.
The only thing you can do is remember he is not the same person he was and you are in love with the former. The best thing you can do is get on with your life. Get involved with things like hobbies, interests, clubs socializing and meeting new friends. Keep in mind the things you loved about him and look for those things in a guy that is more likely to be like that than a wishful thinking once was.



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