how do i know if my boyfriend is using me for sex and his needs?

i cant find an answer for that.... its like (LOVE U THE WAY YOU LIE )RELAIONSHIP

You have had some pretty good input, but you seem to be going back to square one with your litany. You are weak, now you tell us he is abusing you in more ways then one. You have made your bed now lie in it, or go far away enough to lose him entirely. You are quite as disgusting as he is.

disgusting??ME?HOW???????

Then you stop answering call, you stop answering text. You stop going places with him. Leave him alone. It is in your power. Say NO!

You made it seem like he has been stalking you for a long time. This dysfunctional relationship has been going on for awhile, but you have allowed it. You went away with him a couple of days ago.
Stop this mess or continue to let him use you.

Think about it for a bit. If you can't quit him, then you both deserve each other. I guess that makes the both of you disgusting, him more so because he thinks he can get away with sexual and physical an use. It is a never ending cycle now.

You say the two of you went away and had 'extacy' ' what the heck, then he beat you up. How did that make you feel? Empowered to take more abuse?

You came here asking how to deal with quitting him and continued to put up roadblocks after every good suggestion'

So what do you want us to say ?

So the upshot is that you love him and can't let him go?

Look,i ve done everything..i stopped knowing him for 2 years , he calls me i ignore him..he calls from random numbers so of course i will answer ,i wont doubt that it will be him..when he conitnued talking to me from random numbers,everytime i answer a random number ,i dont say hi or hello,i just be quiet till the other one on the line talks first ..that happened alot , till one day i answered a random number , once i answered,he was like( STOP this sickness right now )answer me ..i didnt ,he called again and i didnt answer ..he was parking under my house few days ago,,everytime i go out of the house he will be like where r u ?who r u with ?answer me .stop this stupidity and answer me ... i talked to him face to face and told him with all my heart crying out loud( DONT WANNA KNOW U ANYMORE,UR NOT MY HUSBAND OR ANYBODY THAT MATTERS,I DONT WANNA KNOW U OR SEE UR FACE ANYMORE) that happened infront of his friend and he still kept on saying (THAT wll be easy for u not to know anymore right?its that simple , u wont feel anything right,but thats not going to happen) ...i texted him today a lovely message wiz an end that says its better not to know eachother anymore,he called mom told her to tell to answer my phone and called my brother..till he got me and talked about it ..that i have to change coz he cant trust me anymore bla bla bla.... so i swear I VE TRIED EVERY LITTLE THING) ....

This sounds like such a lovely game for him.

Don't answer your phone any longer. I'm serious.

He's holding your family hostage too?

You need to tell your dad what is going on. This is affecting your whole family. I know you said telling him is the last resort. I think it's time for the last resort.