how do i get over my first love ?

"Absence will only make the heart grow fonder" In this instance, you need some time alone to consider what you may have done to cause your ex boyfriend to dislike you the way he does now. Do some soul searching to find out whether or not you deserve the treatment that he is currently giving you. While you are going through this process, you may begin to understand that you in fact dont deserve this treatment and may be able to begin to move on from this heartache.

My heart goes out to you. I pray you can find some closure and move on. It is always difficult to move on from your first love, But it is possible. Have some faith and in my opinion pray to your higher power if you have one for some guidance.

thank you and i already no what i have one and i re geret it a lot and i already no i deserve what he is doing

You get over it by finding your next love,

thx u guys are so help full

The next question I have for you is simply this. Is it possible for him to forgive you and can you begin to forgive yourself for the improper treatment you put him through. Is there a possibility that you may put him through something worse if he chooses to come back into your life intimately??

Consider all possible routes before you take the next step of your journey with this man. Fix yourself before you try and fix your relationship, That way he sees a change and more importantly has a good reason to get back with you.

I hope it goes well

Always learn from your good and bad experiences that way you grow and mature. Dont just go and jump into the next relationship without realizing what caused the first one to fail

thank you

you guys are so help-full this thing i have done was terrible he deserves to be mad at me and i don't think i could ever forgive myself

I can only speak for myself in this instance. I am knowledgeable in this area due in no small part to the fact that I have been in the same situation you are in right now about 3 years ago. It ultimately caused my marriage to fail. I dont want to repeat the same mistakes and not learn from my past mistakes. You only live once snowbunny. I say you should live this life well and be happy while you are living it. I regret my past mistakes with my ex-wife every day. However I cant dwell on it or I will slowly begin to become a hopeless wreck. We have to be able to move on which takes a bit of tender loving care on our parts while we begin to understand what really drives us to make our decisions that tend to cause us pain when deep down we already know better than to perform these acts to begin with. We already know what we are getting ourselves into before we even decide to commit to any act to begin with. We always ned to weigh out our options before we commit to any act.

My heart goes out to you Snowbunny and I hope things work out for you and your ex or that you find another one to take his place ONLY after you learn from your mistakes.

Have a good day.