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Old Dec 26, 2006, 11:04 PM
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how do i get my mom to let me date?

Theres a boy i like at school but my mom wont let me date hin, because she thinks i'm too young, and i'm 13. How do i convince her to let me date him?

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Old Dec 26, 2006, 11:24 PM   #2  
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You can not do anything to convince your mom, because you are too young.

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Old Dec 27, 2006, 08:57 AM   #3  
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I don't think you are to young, dating someone at your age helps you grow as a person. But don't let it all get to your head only dating nothing else. Try and get your mom to trust you more and maybe she will let you date him.

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s_cianci disagrees: I think dating at this age only hurts one's personal growth rather than help it along.
J_9 disagrees: Dating at 13, UUGGHHHHH. Isn't that a set up for disaster and teenage pregnancy!!!
clouded disagrees: to young, your moms right!
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Old Dec 27, 2006, 09:05 AM   #4  
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I have a 12 year old daughter and there is no way I would let her starting dating at 13 either! I would allow her to hang out with her friends at the mall, sporting events or at my home but not to date! Is this boy 16 years old or older? How do you expect to go on a date if he isn't old enough to drive? Do you know what could happen on a date? You are "just coming of age" right now and your body is changing! Of course you like boys... I did too but it was limited to seeing these boys in school, sporting events or the mall!

Trust me, you have PLENTY of years to date!

Sorry but... I am with your mom on this!

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Well thats true but in the end its all up to the mom, ask your mom to go to a movie with this boy and she can drive you there and she can pick you up to know your safe. And if you have to tell her she can watch the movie to know your safe. Like SINGLE4 said you are "just coming of age" but going on a date will help you develop in your mind as well. But in the end moms are always right and if she disagrees just agree with her.
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Theres a boy i like at school but my mom wont let me date hin, because she thinks i'm too young, and i'm 13. How do i convince her to let me date him?
be friends with him because mothers seldom change their minds when it comes to dating but dads a even harder when it comes to dating their daughters so setlle being friends with him

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Unfortunately, I have to agree with your mother. 13 is too young to start dating. You've got a lot of maturing still to do and aren't ready to handle the emotional baggage that comes with young dating. You've got your whole future ahead of you and you need to be looking at the long term, not just what you think will make you happy right now.
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Pinkflower, I have a daughter that is 13 and she is not allowed to date either. Nor will she be able to until she is 16, well, that is what I say and her Dad says 40 LOL.

I understand how important boys are in your life right now, but your studies need to come first. Your mother is just protecting you from all of the heartache and emotional baggage (as well as some more dangerous things) that come along with dating.
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Dating at age 13? That is too young to be dating. Don't rush to grow up. Enjoy your youth. Your time will come.
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talk to your mom sit down and talk to her tell her that you are 13 and you are growing up tell her taht kids your age are dating just sit down and talk with her abou it
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