how can I win his heart back.

GorgeousAmber · #1 Jul 13, 2008, 02:31 PM

Okay well first off I am 15 and my ex boyfriend Jordan has just turned 17 ..I've known him for about a year now , and I really fell hard for this guy , he asked me out and 2 weeks later dumped me and not even a week passes and he got with someone whom of which I thought was my best friend , but Jordan and I still talk and we might try hanging out but than he said hes scared about making a mistake ..and cheating on his girlfriend so I'm curious of the fact if he still has feelings for me , I just really want this guy back , I really really liked him and it's not like his new girlfriend is skinnier or prettier than me even Jordan says he doesn't know what she has that I don't..
so if anyone has any idea's..on how to win his heart back let me know

N0help4u · Jul 13, 2008, 03:33 PM

Sounds like a confused teen age boy with hormones.
I wouldn't give him a second thought in the boyfriend department until he got some direction in his own life.

Altenweg · Jul 13, 2008, 03:35 PM

You're 15, move on, someone else will come along soon.

Good luck.

Simple Asian · Jul 13, 2008, 07:39 PM

move on ....^^ sorry that we being so harsh and telling you to move on ..

but as a guy that move on without even a second thought ? he wouldnt think about going back with you anyway right ?

i am sorry ....but move on ..life is hard

GorgeousAmber · Jul 13, 2008, 09:45 PM

kay , thanks peopleee :] , can't win every guys heart rightt (N)

JBeaucaire · Jul 14, 2008, 05:20 AM

...and stop naming every guy you date for a couple of weeks as "your boyfriend." He never earned that title at all. It's like calling you a Princess because you visited Disneyland for a day.

And hey, it's not just about winning some guy's heart...YOU are the prize. YOU are the catch. How about a little "princess-ish" thinking here on your part? How about wanting a life where in your story, the prince pursues YOU?

deadly361 · Jul 14, 2008, 02:41 PM

I agree with them all. If he broke up with u so fast and then when out with you friend he must not have liked you very much. A guy would do anything to get you to droll all over them. Just let him go.

GorgeousAmber · Jul 14, 2008, 09:11 PM

JBeaucaire , I understand where your coming from , but did you have to say it so straight up and kind of "rude" remember I said I' knew this guy for a year..and I had liked him for a while..it's not like I started dating some RANDOM guy than called him my BOYFRIEND right away , yeah know?

talaniman · Jul 14, 2008, 10:31 PM

He dumped you once, went with someone else, and you want him back? Aren't you afraid he will dump you again? Leave him alone, and get someone new. Or are you trying to get revenge on him, or his new g/f, who happens to be a former friend? What are you trying to prove here?

ylaira · Jul 14, 2008, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by talaniman

He dumped you once, went with someone else, and you want him back? Aren't you afraid he will dump you again? Leave him alone, and get someone new. Or are you trying to get revenge on him, or his new g/f, who happens to be a former friend? What are you trying to prove here?

Your BF is a teenager and in "exploration of his youth". Dont take him seriously or try to win him back or else you will regret being used.



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