I was with my boyfriend James for 4 years i lost my virginity too him and thought there would never be anyone else!
until i met Richard then me and my partner of 4 years split up but kept seeing each other on an off cos i couldnt bare to let him go, me an rich were off out for 3 months till he was in a tragic accident an died.
After that i stayed single for a year but kept meeting james. he has no trust in me anymore i understand why but i am trying everything...all he seems to do is be angry with me an call me names. how do i gain his trust back? ive tried spoiling him hotels, meals etc but he still cant seem to get over it...its getting to a point where i cant stand him but i cant leave him because i love him0....help!!!!!

Jah_may

Although I am no expert. I believe that you should try to be his friend, in that way he will be able to rebuild trust in you again. You also need to give him time, remember that he perhaps believes that you betrayed him by hooking up with Richard, after you were with him for so long. Your attempts at spoiling him won't work, as he may also believe that you are just trying to buy him back. As I said just be his friend and give him time, and maybe one day he will come around again. Even if he doesn't don't stop being his friend.

ILUVHIM08151988

you know my boyfriend cant trust me either i never cheated on him but i did lie to him in the past and he always tells me i cant trust women i think he is makeing himself believe a lie about not being able to trust him and if he cant grow up and relize what is in the past is the past then he dosent deserve you dont talk to him for a while and he will come running back dont let him know you still care when you see or talk to him tell him how much fun you are haveing and ect.. trust me it works!!!!!