how can i get rid of the high desire for sex that i have?

northbrookschampof08 · #1 Dec 29, 2007, 03:29 PM

i feel like my high sex drive is affecting my relationship with my girlfriend. we argue at least once a month about it and i dont want to argue about it anymore. i think it has something to do with the fact that we moved to second base within the second month and i know im wrong for trying to put everything into a timeframe but i dont know how to get rid of my desire to have sex with her. if anyone has any suggestions please tell me because i dont want to lose this girl over something as simple as sex.

George_1950 · Dec 29, 2007, 03:40 PM

How old are you?

"...as simple as sex"? You kidding? You are into the deepest pit of doo doo you will ever step into.

If you are arguing, time to look elsewhere.

MOWERMAN2468 · Dec 29, 2007, 03:40 PM

self disipline is a good start. and can you define the term: FATHERHOOD???
keep your willy to yourself.

northbrookschampof08 · Dec 29, 2007, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

You merely stop pushing her till she is ready, a real relationship is ot based on sex, but on communication and friendships.

And second base, teens right ??

yeah and i know its not based on sex but how am i not supposed to want it when she teases me with it

Wondergirl · Dec 29, 2007, 05:27 PM

Tell her that, if she doesn't stop teasing, it's over. You will move on. If she teases, walk away.

I hereby give you permission to take control of this situation and insist that she behave herself.

talaniman · Dec 29, 2007, 09:11 PM

You control the drive and don't let it control you. That simple, you don't let the little head get the big head in trouble. First test of manhood.

George_1950 · Dec 29, 2007, 09:16 PM

"she teases me with it" Someone needs to teach your girl some manners because she's playing with fire as well. I'm not laughing cause it ain't funny.

northbrookschampof08 · Dec 29, 2007, 09:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by talaniman

You control the drive and don't let it control you. That simple, you don't let the little head get the big head in trouble. First test of manhood.

thanks that the kind of answer i've been waiting for.

Chrissyg89 · Mar 10, 2008, 09:56 PM

Dont forget that bein a teen girl is confusing. Honestly, she probally wants to have sex just as much as you do, but it is something that is incredibly defining and intimate with us. She teases because her body is saying yes and she turns you down because somewhere she knows she is not ready. Be romantic in different ways. If you guys are supposed to go any further than where you are, if you really like her, you will wait for her. And there is nothing that is more of a turn on than a man that will wait. Lastly when you do have sex, it will be so much better than just waisting the experiance cause you couldnt control your hormones



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