My boyfriend broke up with me recently and from ever since I can't stop thinking about him and the things we used to do and stuff like that. How can I get over him? I really want to forget him and move on with my life but I can't for some reason. How can I get over him?

chobitsfan13

Well one thing you should NOT do is play slow songs all day and eat chocolate lol that doesnt really solve your problems (not saying that u r doing that) Getting over your ex is reaaally hard, infact Im still getting over mine lol. All I can say is, go out with your friends and meet some new guys somehow. Once you find interest in a new guy, you'll forget about your ex. You will think about him now and then I am going to be honest but it wont be as bad as it was from the beginning.

Larjada

It is hard to forget someone we think we love. You cannot love someone that do not love
you. Your boyfriend played you like a yoyo until he got what he wanted from you and
conquered the other female. Think about the signals he sent you. I guarantee you will be glad he is out of your life. He is low down and did not deserve you.

luos1991

my boyfriend split up with me infront of everyone! and same night he got wif this girl he liked before he got with me rite in my face!!! I couldn't believe it! it all happened so quickly! i was heartbroken! I really loved him! i felt lost and like I couldn't go on! I didnt wana be without him! but now i have just got on with things and kept myself busy!! now im very independant and i haven't got with anyone since him. I don't need anyone I'm hapi on my own at the moment! trust me girls!!! don't let them get you down just get on with things, at the end of the day it is their loss and they will realise one day but it will be too late :-) and remember what goes around comes around

breezynaynay

okay.. i was dumped by my exboyfriend too.
although im a young girl only at 16 i have plenty to say about breakup issues.
its really hard to face the truth but honestly you just have to motivate yourself to let him go. its kind of stupid for me to say this becuase im still not facing the truth because im always thinking of him even when im with friends. but that doesnt matter. as long as you have your support system with you every step of the way you'll be able to make it alive with just a tiny hole in your heart.
its hard to find another person because you think to yourself that your ex might comeback to you and ask for you back but i highly doubt that thats going to happen.
my exboyfriend weve been dating for 6 months and i keep on giving us hope even though deep deep down i know that there isnt any, because he already has a new girlfriend. and its only been 2 months since our break up.
i know exactly how you feel and youre probably over him now because i just noticed that this question was about a year ago. so its your turn to help me.
how did you get over him?

N0help4u

Oct 2006
I am sure she is over him by now, possibly even moved on and gee maybe even married by now!

scronklover

Get a life. No offense. It will pass. Find someone new, get a hobbie or a job, which stalking your ex is not an option!

Oyarnimami

I like this topic casue im going through it all myself right now =/ goshhh whyyy ne'way i've read some of the answere's on here and it kind've helped out as well thank you guys Keep In touch With that add muahhhh

sean26

It is hard to get over someone that you have strong feelings for but you have to do it one step at a time.
To begin with get rid of everything that reminds you of your ex, personal items, poems, letters, cards, e-mails, txts.
Do not have any contact whatsoever with your ex, if you think that down the road you ex might contact you, do not answer calls, texts or e-mails because if you do you won't let yourself get passed this situation and you will be allowing yourself to enter to a rollercoaster relationship and beleive me YOU WANT OFF THAT RIDE!
Sometimes you might ask why God doesn't help me out? He won't help you out until you start helping yourself out.
The mind is a powerful thing and if you want to, you will be able to forgett about this situation but it takes time, be patient and remember that there is always something to learn after any expirience that we all go through.

De4rest

Yes you can and you will!