His daughter said no to the marriage

Well it's no wonder he got cold feet, you two don't really know each other and his daughter didn't know her father was going to get married and bring two kids into the house.
It was rather foolish to think you two could just blend two families after knowing each other 5 months and everything would be hunky-dory. This is real life.
Don't get mad at him, you both were rushing into things, you both needed to take a step back.
What if it had been one of your kids who did not want you two to marry?

Maybe with this time apart...you and he will both do a lot of thinking. Your children and his are caught in the middle. I think you're doing the right thing by leaving him alone. If you do get back together...give the kids enough time to get to know each other and take it slow....Good Luck

Lol hell no he isn't getting the ring back lol But stepping back yes I have to for me ! I love him and I know he loves me he just needs to miss me !

Exactly! You can do it it! Keep the ring

After reading all your posts, I think its obvious to you now why so many of us encouraged you to wait to get married.

It'll do you a lot of good to take a step back and see what happens. Like someone else said, if its meant to be, it will be.

Good things come to those who wait.

Let us know how it's going!

Day 2 of me pulling back so far so ok lol. He has been really busy with work and I have been busy (making myself that way) He calls in the morning when he gets home phone convo's last 10 min or so . He called last night when I was leaving kickboxing class and ask me what I was doing so for the hell of it I told him exactly what I was doing I told him my maid of honor to be wanted me to drive by 2 places that she wants to have our shower and get the # and see what place I like best. He said oh really did you decided? I said No I had never been in the one place but had been to a wedding at the other . He didn't change the subject I did.
Ask him reg stuff how did you sleep and what was for dinner that sort of thing. He said Friday he was taking his daughter to see toy story ..I said Oh really My boys would LOVE to see it too . But no invite . He said it had been 2 months since they went to the movies I was like well that will be a good to spend some time with her . I did tell him I tried to speck to her online but she signed off without a reply and he started makeing excuses about Im'ing and how it is messed up sometimes I was like no worries Not a big deal . He needs to know when I reach out to her and she refuses to talk to me . But like someone said above not to contact her anymore your right that will be the last personal contact I will be making . He ask me if I had my boys this weekend and I said I do not but never tried to make plans with me I was going to turn him down letting him know I do have a friend coming in to visit and I would be busy . He called tonight and I couldn't help myself I ask him ..Are we ok? He said well yeah I guess ,Why? I said I just feel you pulling away but hey maybe it's just me I am a girl you know lol . Tried to play it off as no big deal but as you know it is . Well so far that's about as far as I got . No I never called or text him at all since Monday

Stick to it girl! It's time to go NC at all. Try it and see what happens.

You think ? NC at all ? Isn't that just playing a game? And does that ever really work for anyone ? I myself have never done it or if I had it's been when I knew it was over and done with I do not want this relationship over and done with in the least : /