Hi everyone,
I really need advise. I had been dating this guy for about 3 months. It was pretty casual and I wanted a little more. I told the guy this, saying I just wanted to be more involved and see him a little more. He said cool we would give it a try but then I started seeing and being involved with him even less the following weeks. One night we were hanging out and I told him I was all set, I wanted something less casual (a boyfriend) I said. He really didnt say much. This was 2 weeks ago I have chatted with him briefly since mostly on texts, but I miss him and want to see him......I dont know if hes just not that into me or a commitment phobe.......some advice?

Fr_Chuck

Ask him ?

Sounds like he not wanting as much committment as you are at this ponit.
But it could be alot of things.

major_soccer_freak

Try getting together agian and try saying it another way or just full out, maybe hes shy and doesnt know what to do. Talk to him get him to know you more and see how that works out.