he's so cruel.but I love him

diwababygirl · #1 Nov 1, 2009, 01:32 PM

Hello everybody!

well I don't knOw what to do...I need help so please I'm waiting for your answers
my story began when I met a friend of mine who introduced me to a few people... One of them was looking at me in a strange way...anyway I left
after almost 7 months a girl came to me and asked me for my e-mail address so I gave it to her... in the evening a boy entered and started to telk with me...after 3 days I met him....It was so easy to talk with him...we went out everyday since then. after one week he asked me to be his girlfriend... After One month I had to broke up with him =s
we didn't talk...I didn't forget him 3 weeks later I met him....told him that I love him so much so we came back together

I had the best days of my life ever with him
he made my life meanfull...I couldn't even imagine that one day he will step a side and be so cruel with me (he was that boy who was looking at me and for 7 months he was searching for me)
any way after 5 months he broke up with me and told me that he came back to his ex.... I called him after 2 weeks and we started to see each other again he told me that he never came back to his ex he said that just because he had to broke up with me... nOw we're not together because last week he asked me to leave him alone and to forget that I knew him once and all this because he wants to
I felt his love.... I saw it in his eyes ... I know that he loves me but I don't know why he's doing this
knowing that I'm from a country that boys and girls can't have this kind of romantic relation-ships and his mother didn't like our relation since the beginning
I need help I'm so depressed so help me please

Altenweg · Nov 1, 2009, 01:37 PM

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knowing that I'm from a country that boys and girls can't have this kind of romantic relation-ships and his mother didn't like our relation since the beginning

You may have the answer without us answering.

Either way, even if it's not because of his mom, he's made it clear that the relationship is over, so it's time to move on.

It hurts, but there's nothing you can do to get someone back unless they want to come back and he doesn't.

Go to No Contact, start having fun with friends and doing other things. Live your life, you'll find someone else one day.

jaime90 · Nov 2, 2009, 10:56 AM

This guy does not love you. If he did, he wouldn't leave you this many times to go off with his ex girlfriend. This guy could be charming you just to keep you around while he bounces around from relationshp to relationship- do you want to be his rebound 5 times over? I wouldn't.

Love is commitment. You need to move on.