ok so the guy who ive been crushing on n whos always pickin on me n flirtin w me now knows that i like him. when my friend asked him who he liked "he said no one" n then she told him that i liked him but even tho he knows that i like he still flirts with me n then the other day he comes up 2 me n hugs me n says somethin like "u never talk 2 me anymore..ur like avoiding me or somethin."i mean i guess u could say that was kinda tru,but that was cuz i didnt kno how 2 act around him.so what should i do?

scrub cakes

well go for it ask him face to face or make the first move oh yh would you be able to help me is 11 yrs age difference to much

PrttyBrownEyez21

ask him what face to face?if he likes me?and to answer ur question, i dont think age matters,but sometimes it can get in the way,but i mean if u y'all feel y'all have a genuine connection,then age should matter.but it also depends on how old u are now n how old they are cuz sometimes bein too young n bein in a relationship w someone 11 years old than u is too big of a difference.hope i helped.

Silent Breeze

It seems like he likes you. Guys like to pick on girls and fool around with them and play fight with them because they can make physical contact while doing so. If he asked you why you're distant after you found out he said he doesnt like anyone then I guess it means he wasnt telling the truth when he said "no one". The only way to find out is to ask him, if you're too shy then I'll try to give you examples on how to open up the subject, but if you're not that shy and you're able to ask him, what are you waiting for ? :P

PrttyBrownEyez21

yea i do tend to get shy around guys..especially if i like them so im gonna need sum examples on how 2 open up 2 the subject

Silent Breeze

Alright, if you're shy then I guess the best thing is to smile to him (I've learned smiling is the best way to communicate and show you're interested and start up conversations). When he comes around and talks to you show you're interested to hear what he has to say. If by chance you end up alone together, try to take advantage. Ask him about his tests or favorite music, whether he likes bowling, skating, surfing, whatever. Try to talk about an event or activity you can do together in the future. If there is a concert this weekend or the next, talk about it, he might end up asking you to go to the concert with him. If he doesnt ask you out to one of the activities you talked about but you feel that he would like to but is also shy to ask, go like "I'm heading to ___ with a couple of friends, want to come along?" Show the group thing, its not as embarrasing as asking him out on a date but you can still manage to meet him outside of school where you can get to know him better. I hope I helped. If there are any more questions I'd try and love to help.
Goodluck!

PrttyBrownEyez21

today was our last day for christmas break and he walked w me all the way from my class to my bus.from my class to the stairs he had his arm around me n i put my arm around him too.then he walked me 2 my bus n got on my bus said hey 2 a few ppl n then i gave him his christmas present n card n then he hugged me twice n then got off.does that mean anything?

Silent Breeze

Walking with you was a good sign, he could've gone with his friends or talked to someone else but he stayed with you and wanted to spend his last few minutes in school before the break with you other than anyone else. (and I'm pretty sure he wasnt doing it for the gift ;P ) Is there any party or gathering happening during this break? Will there be any chance you might meet him? Does he have your number? How old are you? A little more details would be helpful.
To be honest he reminds me of a really nice guy I know, and these signs are really good. However, he also reminds me of another guy who keeps getting me so confused and turned out to be no good (unfortunatly, I'm still not completely cured from the hurt, and he still manages to get me so confused) So be careful, dont get too carried away, he may be doing these things but thinking of you only as a friend. You can never know if he loves you unless he says it, and I think you're on the right track to finding out.
Please let us know what happens.

Simple Asian

agree with silent all the way ..pplz tense to get confused with this stuff really easy so be carefull and i hope it turn out good .....

as a nice guy i know that we dont mess around with this stuff ...b.c i know that if i do it will only end up hurting the girls ...and from what you been saying about him ...(he seem like a nice guy ) ^^>...

lol..i just dont know is that us nice guy way to nice ? or that you girls have the magic to make us never want to hurt you guys and just want to protect you ...i hope you catch my drift

lol..well what i am trying to say is why dont give it a try ??? ^^


sorry ...my english is not really good so ..hahahaha i hope it help

PrttyBrownEyez21

theres nothin goin on over break that i know of.but im sixteen and yes he has my number i gave it 2 him in his christmas card that i gave 2 him.