i met this guy in turkey and he was so cool i fell in love with him now im home the only contact we have is msn he says he loves me but i think that he might say that to every girl he meets help me waht is your view on this ??

Jesushelper76

How old are you? How long did you meet this person for?

ponytails233

we spent 3 weeks together nearly 24/7 and im 14

Illusion

Well, sounds like you met a guy that you really liked. And of course it sounds really nice and feels good that he says he loves you. Now you are home. Stay friends with him. Acknowledge that you like him (or love him also). Yeah, he may say I love you to every girl he meets because it could be true - he loves looking at you, your smile, your eyes - and so says I love you. To say I love you to him might mean I love being with you and love being your friend. I love you might not mean I love you because you are the one for me. Is this why you feel sad?

Are you sad because you won't see him again? Or because you want to continue the relationship? I'm not really sure why your heart is breaking.

Jesushelper76

So this is your first crush. You live far away as well? I know you may feel like you fell in love but spending three weeks together is not long enough to get to know one another. I think it will be a good friendship there, but distance and age is something that is hard to deal with. I am not sure about him because you do not even know him. He could tell every girl that. Just remember there will be others that you feel close to or have crushes with. Just be careful.

ponytails233

the thing that most breaks my heart is that he is the kind of guy every girl dreams about and now i may never see him again and those three simple words can make you feel so special and wanted inside and i try to get over him but he is always there i have boys after me but they just cant compare i think i fell in love without knowing and now it is coming down on me like a ton of bricks and i cant talk to no one about it apart from complete strangers

Jesushelper76

The thing is that your really young and you will meet that special boy or men later on in life. Right now it is important for you not to feel so heart broken when your not even thinking that right now maybe is not the time to be so series with somebody, do you know what I mean? Not saying you should not keep in touch, or that you should not continue to be friends. You just never ever know what the future may hold and maybe years later you will meet up again.

ponytails233

but i cant get him out of my mind how do i do it ??

Jesushelper76

My wife and I met when we were 6 years old. Then When I was 10 I moved away, far away. Then 8 years later I moved back. We stayed in touch but also lived our own seperate lives. Eventually everything came full circle. 9 years after moving back, we became a lot closer and now we are married and have a child together. Now I am not saying it always works out this way but we had our own seperate lives and did our own things but kept in touch just as friends. Well you know how it has turned out. If it is meant to be and that person is supposed to be that special somebody they will always stay in your life one way or another. As a friend, or as a partner. If things do not work out or do not keep in touch or do not meet up again then it was not meant to be and you need to just enjoy your life without this person and one day you will meet somebody that you are meant to be with. Crushes are hard and confusing and my advice is keep busy with your friends close to you, spend time with your family and just know that when it is the right time you will be with somebody. I hope you understand that these feelings will pass and they are strong and it is normal to feel this way. It will get easier with time, but do not continue focus on one thing and focus on other things that are important and these feelings you have will get easier.

statictable

Save your money, wait 8 years and then book a flight back. MSN him to let him know you'll be back. I'm sure his love for you will give him the strength to wait.