He tried to kiss me

adam_89 · Aug 23, 2010, 01:28 PM

I would definitely say that he likes you and it sounds like you like him as well. How much have you thought about it? How much do you think about him? Do you just find yourself missing him or thinking about him? Could you see yourself being romantically involved with him? Sorry to ask all the questions, but I think if you know the answers then you have your answer here.

michael.ou · Aug 23, 2010, 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by adam_89

I would definitely say that he likes you and it sounds like you like him as well. How much have you thought about it? How much do you think about him? Do you just find yourself missing him or thinking about him? Could you see yourself being romantically involved with him? Sorry to ask all the questions, but I think if you know the answers then you have your answer here.

Thank you for your response. I think about him a lot... I tried to remember everything he says about himself, his family, or career problems, or even those silly not so funny jokes. But I'm a little scared, he is 11 years older, around 36 maybe, and very experienced - which makes me nervous. Even if I like him, I don't want it to go too fast, how do I know if he is serious or just playing games with me? So confused...

hheath541 · Aug 23, 2010, 02:22 PM

Have fun. Go on a few dates. See where things lead, before you start worrying about rather or not it could be a long-term thing.

I'm no authority on the male mind, but I don't think most men would drive 2 hours just to have lunch with you, if he didn't honestly like you.

I wish · Aug 23, 2010, 03:15 PM

You don't want to outright reject him because that would be telling him to find someone else. You do need to show him that you're interested in getting to know him better by going out on a date again.

If the "kiss" is brought up again, just let him know that you rather take things slow, but still interested in getting to know him better.

adam_89 · Aug 24, 2010, 04:56 AM

Sorry I missed your post yesterday. Not sure what happened. Anyway, I am sure he does like you, like heath said, I know unless I liked a girl, I wouldn't drive 2 hours to see her.
Hopefully at his age, he wouldn't be trying to fool with someone's emotions like that. I am sure he was just trying to express his feelings for you. Just keep going on the dates if you like him and want something out of it. Keep it slow, if it is meant to be then he will understand.

Devorameira · Aug 24, 2010, 06:05 AM

I'd say he definitely likes you. He wouldn't drive 2 hours to have lunch with someone he didn't like.

Maybe you should be up front with him and tell him you'd like to take things slow and easy, but also let him know that you are interested in him and enjoy his company.

talaniman · Aug 24, 2010, 07:39 AM

After 5 months and a few dates, some honest communications is in order, like finding out by asking why he drive 2 hours to have lunch with you.

michael.ou · Aug 24, 2010, 10:02 AM

Thank you guys! I appreciate it. He did drive 2 hours to see me, but not just for me. The first time was for his buddy's wedding, second was for a friend's baseball tournament. Before meeting his friends, he had lunch and coffee with me, and he even asked me to join him. Of course I refused him. But the third time was especially for lunch and movie with me.

I'm not sure if he likes me because sometimes I text or call him but he doesn't get back with me - saying he's busy with work, or being a little drunk - after 5 bottles of beer. Whatever, I feel a bit uncomfortable with this... A drunk guy...

adam_89 · Aug 24, 2010, 10:08 AM

If he is a drunk and you have doubts about a relationship then maybe it isn't for the best. Also, I had another thought about the distance you two lived from each other. It is kind of far to make something serious work. Don't do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.

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