is he serious or is he a player

madlydeeply · #1 Mar 9, 2008, 02:36 PM

a guy has been chasing me for about 6 months now, we have been on a few dates, got to know each other well, ive met his family, he has met mine, we have actually slept together, he claims he loves me, and when he is with me no one else matters etc. he always texts me and says he would like to be with me all day everyday, he understands he cant due to work and i have uni, and family commitments etc, but if im not with him he will text a lot, we text late into the night, when hes on his lunch break and breaks etc.

does this prove he does like/love me?

although let me express another side, when he is out with his mates, he likes o have a few to drink, he can act differently out and around mates, he likes to be recognised and i know he knows a lot of people including lots of girls, he is often louder and a bit more immature, is this just normal behaviour from a 21 yr old lad.

does this mean he could be a player and having me for a fool?

COOKIE MONSTER · Mar 9, 2008, 03:11 PM

21 year old lads are loud and imature around their mates and sum lads do act differently when their with their girlfriend as to when their with their friends

my fella told me he does act differently when hes with his mates than when hes with me thats just how most fellas are.
lads dont take just anyone home to meet their family you no so you must mean sumthin to him,plus if it was just sex he's had that n hes still after you so giv him achance

Giant Panda · Mar 9, 2008, 03:14 PM

Based on the information provided, I'd say he is genuinely attracted to you, but there is no way for us here at AMHD to know 100% whether or not he truly cares about you or not. It's just something you have to figure out on your own. It sucks, but it's true. I wish you the best.

Also, after a few drinks, who isn't a little immature and loud? Haha...

COOKIE MONSTER · Mar 9, 2008, 03:27 PM

and just because he no's alot of girls doesnt mean hes aplayer.
men are aloud to have girl mates that they dont sleep with uno, just like us women can have male friends and not be attracted to them and not have sex with them it goes both ways

N0help4u · Mar 9, 2008, 05:39 PM

I would agree with the others he is probably a complex person and has his quiet he loves you side AND his out and about "show off" side.



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