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so one day im in a chat with one of my friends this guys lets call him D well d' invites people from his list and i start talking to one of his friends (lets call him T) online so i never seen him before but he go's to my friend d's college so we talk this goes on for like 3 years we just become online friends. so after a while he keeps saying he wants to see me ..im not big on internet hookups but since he knows my fried D i know in real life i tell D if he certain this guy is cool he says yea but he has a history of getting a lot of girls on campus. i meet him he is very good looking ! he could definitely be a male model 6'2 ..he can dress etc.
then i find out he prefers cats then dogs ..has a "unique" way of dressing in person and has a very sarcastic way of speech. we have fun he does little things to get close to me blah blah then we go into conversation and he starts telling me how he is flexible from soccer and being the goalie ?? im like ok then he says he can do a split and to me its not a turn on then i say " you are so gay" in a playful voice and he says let me prove i'm not and tires to be funny. but it does not really seem like he got upset about me saying that or maybe he just didn't take it to heart ..but he did kept repeating you think im really gay?
well here is a list of things that made me think he is gay..has been gay or soon will be
he likes cats and hates dogs - I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU SAY THAT'S WEIRD TO ME
can dress - very different from guys around here he likes the fitted pants look he says baggy pants are "tacky" i some what agree
very sarcastic/ animated faces- hes dramatic when he talks
can do the splits - in his defense says because of soccer
like the color purple - in his defense it means royolty
walks weird - i think he is bowlegged but its not extreme
when we were looking at posters in the cd store and i saw one of johnny depp and was like oh sexy he said not to be gay or anything but johnny depp is a pretty good looking guy " i said your so gay and walked away
he says he never approaches girls they always come up to him
things made me think he is straight
he wouldn't stop starring at me kept asking why i couldn't look at him( its cuz he was to damn tall)
tried to kiss me about 100 times-succeeded like 3 times
says he enjoys giving girls oral very much - wants to do it on me
was a little to touchy feely at the end of the date - i had to hit a couple hands
history of getting a lot of girls ( but what does that really mean)
I"m to high maintenance ?? lol thank you ill take that as a compliment ..but hey i'm a snob but guys love me ??and i don't have sex with them ? i wonder why they must not think im a snob maybe i sound like one to ignorant people hence ....your statement ..and your a sad little women who should grow up and stop name calling .. if you could read u could see i said he i don't pick up his calls he's not on my level .... do you need a man maybe you could have him ......want my sloppy seconds?
Oh I can read dear, even your text talk and incomplete sentences.
As for your sloppy seconds, no thanks, I'm happily married, have been for 13 years. Besides, I like guys that can see through acts like yours, you know, intelligent, independent, cat loving guys.
One day you'll grow up, hopefully, and then you'll learn, hopefully. Until then, yes, guys will fall for you, until this attitude comes out, then they'll run for the hills. Pretty on the outside but ugly on the inside only works for a short time, then they catch on.
Oh I can read dear, even your text talk and incomplete sentences.
As for your sloppy seconds, no thanks, I'm happily married, have been for 13 years. Besides, I like guys that can see through acts like yours, you know, intelligent, independent, cat loving guys.
One day you'll grow up, hopefully, and then you'll learn, hopefully. Until then, yes, guys will fall for you, until this attitude comes out, then they'll run for the hills. Pretty on the outside but ugly on the inside only works for a short time, then they catch on.
Good luck.
lol you talk as if you think you know me ?..they run for the hills you say ..hmmm let me tell you something lady when i have a guy he is mine untill i say otherwise ...i dont have to chase them and i have never been dumped and if one day i slip up and do ..i will just shrug it off because thats the kind of person i am .. guys are easy come easy go.... well here's a tip happily married for 13 ...don't worry about how guys interact with me lol ..stop wishing my love life sucks because simply it doesn't that's like me saying your husband is low life pathetic excuse for a man i don't know if theses things are true but do i wish bad on you ..no because i dont care for you life lol ..thats the difference HONEY , oh yes one more things yes i am beautiful but thats not all that attracts them..what elses would it be ..if you were half the women i am then you would have a idea ....no go tend to your husband and stop playing online counselor
You silly little girl. Do you have any idea who you are talking to? No, you really don't. Honey, grow up, get half the experience I have, then you can talk.
You may be beautiful on the outside, but honey, your personality sucks. Beauty fades, ignorant lasts forever.
Obviously you are a great actress if these guys are sticking around, because if this is the attitude they saw, I'm sure they wouldn't, but what do I know, right?
As for what else attracts them, well, like you said, easy come, easy go, emphasis on the easy.
As for being half the women you are, God I hope not, that's something I would never wish for.
he likes cats and hates dogs - I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU SAY THAT'S WEIRD TO ME
can dress - very different from guys around here he likes the fitted pants look he says baggy pants are "tacky" i some what agree
very sarcastic/ animated faces- hes dramatic when he talks
can do the splits - in his defense says because of soccer
like the color purple - in his defense it means royolty
walks weird - i think he is bowlegged but its not extreme
when we were looking at posters in the cd store and i saw one of johnny depp and was like oh sexy he said not to be gay or anything but johnny depp is a pretty good looking guy " i said your so gay and walked away
I haven't read all the posts...but here's my reply:
I'm a 22 year old...straight guy.
the cat/dog thing...fine, I have a dog and I'm allergic to cats...so no comments there. I also like otters and hamsters. ...what the heck does liking an animal have anything to do with one's sexuality?
I think I dress relatively well.
I'm absolutely sarcastic and I am pretty darn animated when I talk.
I can also do a split. I've taken 4 years of kung fu. I can also sword fight, fence, and shoot a gun.
I'm not so sure what "purple" has anything to do with this...I could care less.
Johnny Depp is a damn good looking guy. So is Will Smith.
I think overall, you have issues. Leave this guy alone, and let him find a DECENT girl.
.. plus this topic means nothing anyway because as of now i refuse to pick up his phone calls and moved on to dating a physicians Assistant statement ..
lol you guys make me laugh!! KEEP ON TALKING ME AND MY FRIENDS ARE HAVING A BALL READING YOUR COMMENTS ... AND ACTUALLY ITS HARD TO BELIEVE I AM PRETTY SMART ..I CANT WAIT UNTILL IM ONE OF YOU GUYS BOSSES DONT WORRY I WILL FORGIVE YOU WHILE IM SLASHING YOUR PAY CHECKS IN HALF LOL TO BUY DESIGNER SHOES FROM V.WANG ...THATS IF HALF OF YOU ARENT ALREADY RETIRED. ...OLD PEOPLE GET SO CRANKY AWW....THE TRUTH IS I THINK IM A GD ACTRESS BECAUSE GUYS THINK IM THE BEST THING SINCE SLICE BREAD AND YOU KNOW THAT GUY I CALLED GAY ...HE THINKS HE IS IN LOVE WITH ME HE TOLD ME THAT IN A TEXT THE OTHER DAY SINCE I REFUSED TO PICK UP HIS CALLS AND YOU KNOW WHAT I SAID " AWWW HOW SWEET" AND THEN IGNORED HIM SOME MORE ...SOOOO I CAN HAVE HIM ..IF I WANT LOL!!!!! ..BUT YEA IM SELFISH AND I VOLUNTEER AND THE BREST AND CERVICAL CANCER PROGRAM I COULD OF HAD A JOB THERE BUT I TURNED IT DOWN TO GO BACK TO COLLEGE SO AGAIN ALL YOU GUYS ARE WRONG MARRIED WOMEN OF 13 AND ALLERGIC TO CATS GUY STOP EMBARRASSING YOURSELF .. THIS GUY LAST NIGHT OVER ICE CREAM GAVE ME AN ISSEY MIYAKE BILBAO TOKOLOCOM BAG ..I FOUND IT RATHER UGLY HE HAS A THING FOR JAPANESE DESIGNERS THATS IF YOU KNOW WHO HE IS I DONT THINK IT COST THAT MUCH ANYONE WANT A LESS THEN 24 HOURS HAND ME DOWN?? ....LOSERS LOL
Dear, unless I decide to take a job at Walmart I don't think I have to worry about you being my boss.
As for being old, not so much.
You are very selfish, and it will catch up to you one day. Like I said, beauty fades, wait and see. Of course, you won't listen, you know everything, right?
Trust me, for now the guys want you, because you're eye candy, a trinket, a pretty little toy. When a guy looks to marry he looks for more than an empty shell.
As for volunteering at the cancer centre, what do you want, a medal? Both my parents died of cancer, and I took care of them, gave them their shots, their meds, took them for chemo and radiation, blood transfusion, you name it. I hope that you are a better person when you are there dealing with these poor sick people, because on here, well, you don't sound like the kind of person I'd want helping me during my final days.
I have a college degree, I've been the "career women", I took time off to be a mom.
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AND ACTUALLY ITS HARD TO BELIEVE I AM PRETTY SMART
You took the words right out of my mouth, it is hard to believe, and there's been no proof so far.
Say hi to your friends, hope they get a kick out of this post.
Dear, unless I decide to take a job at Walmart I don't think I have to worry about you being my boss.
As for being old, not so much.
You are very selfish, and it will catch up to you one day. Like I said, beauty fades, wait and see. Of course, you won't listen, you know everything, right?
Trust me, for now the guys want you, because you're eye candy, a trinket, a pretty little toy. When a guy looks to marry he looks for more than an empty shell.
As for volunteering at the cancer centre, what do you want, a medal? Both my parents died of cancer, and I took care of them, gave them their shots, their meds, took them for chemo and radiation, blood transfusion, you name it. I hope that you are a better person when you are there dealing with these poor sick people, because on here, well, you don't sound like the kind of person I'd want helping me during my final days.
I have a college degree, I've been the "career women", I took time off to be a mom.
You took the words right out of my mouth, it is hard to believe, and there's been no proof so far.
Say hi to your friends, hope they get a kick out of this post.
YOU LOVE TALKNG TO ME FINE LOL.... I DONT HAVE PROOF THAT YOU NOW WHAT THE HELL UR TALKING ABOUT EITHER LOL.....REALLY !! NOW I KNOW YOUR IGNORENT YOU THINK STUDYING CANCER AND RESEARCHING IS NOT A BIG DEAL!!!.WELL THEN YOU SHOULD HAVE MORE RESPECT FOR SOMEONE WHO IS TAKING THERE FREE TIME OUT TO SAVE PEOPLE LIKE YOUR PARENTS . THATS ALL I CAN SAY, ....I DONT CARE WHAT I SOUND LIKE TO YOU BECAUSE YOU JUST PROVED YOU MEAN NOTHING TO ME THE ONLY RESPECT I HAVE FOR YOUR PATHETIC LIFE IS YOUR PARENTS ... IM NOT WORRIED ABOUT GUYS BECAUSE THERE EVERYWHERE I HAVE BEEN PROPOSED TO TWICE ? I DENIED BOTH LOL READ THIS LADY i DONT NEED MEN TO LOVE MYSELF UNLIKE YOU..WELL GO PLAY MOMMIE THEN AND STOP WORRYING ABOUT MY LIFE ITS GREAT ..YOU BE CARFUL WHAT YOU SAY MOM....MY FRIEND SAID THANK YOU HOPEFULLY YOUR KIDS DONT GROW UP LIKE YOU A SAD WOMEN WHO WISHES BAD ON SOMEONE BETTER THEN THEM ....BEAUTY DIES YES YES BLAH BLAH BUT BY THAT TIME ILL BE RETIRING IN ITALY SOMEWHERE SO SAVE UR PITY
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