my ex that ive been trying to ignore is talking to me again and dont know what to do

jackieeez · #1 Oct 18, 2007, 04:35 PM

i broke up with my ex about 6 monthes ago and told him now that i wanted to get back together and he told me that he didnt think anything was there anymore and that we tried it once nd it didnt work. i wrote about this before and people told me to try to ignore him. ive been trying to ignore him and now all of a sudden he starts coming up to me saying why i dont say hello anymore or talk to him. the thing is, i always fall for him everytime we talk nd i was doing great but when he said that i just fell right back for him again. i like this guy alot and i dont no what to do to get him to like me again nd give me a second chance! i have know clue wat he is thinking right now. i need advice!!!

sarah1989 · Oct 18, 2007, 04:48 PM

hun im in exactualy the same situation at the moment...
my ex broke up with me a few months back
as soon as he did i beg for him to take me back
but he had moved on i just thought there is no use
so i gave up..
as soon as i gave up and had n/c i was doing fine i hardly thought of him and wanted to get on with my life
as soon as i was on the mend he messaged me and called me to come get him all the time and what not.
i find it so hard not to reply but i did and now i have fallen for him again
the thing is he didnt treat me very well when we was together but i still love him very much...
i think the n/c thing really gets them thinking
im not sure what my ex is thinking but he is putting kisses in my messages
but the other week he said he doesnt want a girlfrined for a while so where does that leave me?
id say he still loves you but he may just be playing you i know my ex did...
just see how things go sit down and talk to him to see what he wants if its still nothing
try n/c for a while live life have fun
good luck

Lostinlove · Oct 18, 2007, 07:49 PM

I say F him or Her. My ex mess me up bad, first love, first everything. Since high school we dated. 5 years together and we event got engage. I won't even talk to her anymore. I just wish she stay out of my life. If she my friends then she is just going to be teasing me. I didn't do anything wrong, she just fell in love with another man. Her feeling wasn't the same as mine so i'm done and i'm cutting it off. NO more her anywhere around me. SO let it go bcause trust me they'll do it again, but that just me. Hope that help a little



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