I want her back!

shakkai2011 · #1 Mar 20, 2008, 12:28 AM

Recently, me and my girlfriend broke up. I'm only 14 and she's 16. We were together for 9 1/2 months till she said things are changing. We're still very close friends but I'm still mad in love with her. Can anyone help me?

XenoSapien · Mar 20, 2008, 06:23 PM

Yes, I can help. For the next several years, there's going to be more changes with you and her. MAINTAIN being very close friends, and ACCEPT just that. If you are the one still standing after the smoke clears, then you will have your rewards.

XenoSapien

JBeaucaire · Mar 21, 2008, 03:10 AM

Help you how?

Help you get her back? No.

Help you get over her? No, you're going to remember your first love for the rest of your life. That's a good thing, usually.

Help you move on? Sure. Get some guy friends and get involved in some stuff you enjoy. Take up a hobby, something you can dive into when you start thinking about her too much, something you can use to distract yourself.

When you start to get close to another girl (or girls, you're still young!) then the pain will become less.



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