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    Jun 22, 2007, 12:48 PM
    He likes me I like his best friend.
    So this boy in my grade really likes me and he finally admitted it through a text message, a really sweet one for that matter.
    By the way Im not using real names so lets say James is the guy who likes me and Todd is the guy I like...

    Text message: Hey, its James, listen now that its summer I have something to tell you, I am madly in love with you, and I don't have the guts to tell you to your face because I fear rejection. Im not begging to go out with you or even asking if you like me back, all Im tryingto do is get something off my chest. And now its off, I hope you read this, this is how I feel.

    When I got my text I was in shock, because I am really crushing on his best friend, Todd. I don't know what to do, I was planning on asking todd to a movie since I think todd likes me, even as a friend. I don't want to crush Jame's heart though, he's really sweet! What do I do.. and how do I manage to be with Todd w/o James being hurt.
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    Jun 22, 2007, 01:34 PM
    :rolleyes:Hey I've been in your shoes before but instead they were cousins what i can tell you is that you might soon find out that the one you like could be a real big jerk but the one who likes you is the one gonna be the one that really comforts you what i can tell you to do is talk to the one that you like and see how he feels about you see if there are any feelins there but i can *****Honestly Tell You That The One Who Likes You Is Gonna Be The One For You***** :rolleyes:
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    Jun 22, 2007, 04:49 PM
    Be honest and tell him you have a thing for his friend and not him. No way you can spare his feelings, and anything less would be cruel.
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    Jun 28, 2007, 10:31 AM
    Thnk u so much
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    Jun 28, 2007, 11:14 AM
    WelcomeLOVEYALOTS
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