my boyfriend cheated on me he swears he won't do it again but i need to know before we move on

TheSavage

easy answer here -- how many cheaters say I will never do it again? He is just a "boy" friend --move on while you can say that. -- Savage

tinsign

You will always have doubts now if he is or not, move on and before you even say i love him think of this...Did he love you enough not to cheat_no he did not.

Did he love you enough not to put you at risk of sexual transmitted diseases if he had sex with the other person?..no he did not

Now to me that would tell me in itself he is not the guy i would want in the future with me.

kristynn

Obviously, he might very well cheat again. You cannot predict the future and nobody can guarantee he will not cheat again.

But, can you still trust him now??

If you do, then give him a second chance...

Squiffy

You have to follow your heart on this one.

My husband cheated on me, I forgave him, and he just kept on doing it. I think once a cheat always a cheat, but its a gamble only you can take.

Good luck.

robertsqueen

I would say if he really is sorry give him another chance. I met my husband in high school and he ended up cheating on me. Two years later we got back together, and he is the most faithful man ever. Everyone makes mistakes...if you really love him, and it only happend once, then forgive him.

incognito

Forgive but don't forget.
If they really cared about you then they wouldn't have cheated.
Move on.