Is he flirting?or is he interested?

Hellounion · Nov 3, 2009, 07:03 PM

There is this guy at work, I like him a lot, he is charming, smart and funny. But I don't know if he likes me. He winks at me, teases me. Every time I have my nails done, he would hold my hands and look at them, he always helps me, he said he cares about me, he makes me feel like he is interested, but I am also afraid of he is just flirting, I can't stop thinking about him, does he like me? Please give some advise!!!

Hellounion · Nov 5, 2009, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by LaurenLo24

I feel he is, BUT he sounds somewhat that he could be a player! Find out if he is seeing someone, or has a GF. Facebook creep! Also, if he does and he continues to lead you on, ignore him or play the homewrecker card! Hehe. But if you really want to find out, ignore him for a few days. Don't go our of your way to be mean to him, but just don't give him as much attention as you usually do!

How do I play home wracker card!

Hellounion · Nov 5, 2009, 05:36 PM

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Originally Posted by LaurenLo24

I feel he is, BUT he sounds somewhat that he could be a player! Find out if he is seeing someone, or has a GF. Facebook creep! Also, if he does and he continues to lead you on, ignore him or play the homewrecker card! Hehe. But if you really want to find out, ignore him for a few days. Don't go our of your way to be mean to him, but just don't give him as much attention as you usually do!

How to play homewrecker card?

Jake2008 · Nov 5, 2009, 06:24 PM

Looking at it another way, if he was serious about you going with him to a bar after work, when you left him hangin', he doesn't know if you are interested.

Maybe if an opportunity comes up again, just say, "Well, I have a few stops to make first, but where are you going, and I'll meet you there." That way, you are at least acknowledging him, and, if you are uncomfortable going, you can always say that you ended up at your mother's place longer than you expected, and just went home.

I presume you are over 21, and he's around 26? Or is there a bigger age gap there.

Try to just think that when opportunity knocks, if you don't answer the door, it may never knock again.

Hellounion · Nov 5, 2009, 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Jake2008

Looking at it another way, if he was serious about you going with him to a bar after work, when you left him hangin', he doesn't know if you are interested.

Maybe if an opportunity comes up again, just say, "Well, I have a few stops to make first, but where are you going, and I'll meet you there." That way, you are at least acknowledging him, and, if you are uncomfortable going, you can always say that you ended up at your mother's place longer than you expected, and just went home.

I presume you are over 21, and he's around 26? Or is there a bigger age gap there.

Try to just think that when opportunity knocks, if you don't answer the door, it may never knock again.

Thank you, that is very true. I did not follow him along. He is 5 years older than me. It is not like I have never dated before, the work place makes it harder, normal guys at bars, if I was interested and they were not, I didn't have to see them ever again, no big deal, but him, I have to see him everyday, I want to be sure befor making a move.