Is he cheating

FritoLover99 · #1 Jul 28, 2008, 05:00 PM

Hi i have reason to believe that my boyfriend of 1 year may be cheating on me.He always answers his phone and walks away and 1 day i went and looked and there were alot of calls from Stacy. How do i find out for sure?

ylaira · Jul 28, 2008, 05:29 PM

ask..

danielnoahsmommy · Jul 28, 2008, 05:32 PM

women are usualy right when they belive bf is cheating. get rid of him

Altenweg · Jul 28, 2008, 05:34 PM

Ask him who Stacy is.

danielnoahsmommy · Jul 28, 2008, 05:41 PM

hes never going to be honest enoug or smart enough to answer that question

ylaira · Jul 28, 2008, 05:48 PM

we dont know whos that lady yet is...say like "You know Im 'bothered' with those calls from Stacy, who is she?".

Altenweg · Jul 28, 2008, 05:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ylaira

we dont know whos that lady yet is...

Pardon?

ylaira · Jul 28, 2008, 06:05 PM

I'm not a big fun of assumption. If I were her, I'll ask directly and if Im not contented with the answer thats when I secretly investigate and confirm.

KissMe10der · Jul 28, 2008, 06:57 PM

You need to ask who stacy is, and why he feels he cant talk to her on the phone while your there. Tell him that you arent assuming he is cheating, but he is REALLY making it look like it. This needs to be addressed. And if they are just friends, ask to meet her. If she is important enough to him to talk to her all the time.. its worth the investment to meet her.

THEN you can see their body language, and see if there is some attraction going on there.

FritoLover99 · Jul 29, 2008, 12:14 PM

I have asked him who she is but he just said an old friend. Does that mean they were dating or were they really just friends. I am gonna ask him to invite her over. Thanks for the ideas



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