okay so there is this guy that likes me a lot that i sort of like but i like this other guy so much more and i think im in love with him but idk. im sort of stuck in between. but im only 14 so i dont think i am in love but maybe i am. this guy makes me feel special. we have the romances you see in movies. someone help please. how come the one that treats me like im in love with the most.

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Melaina,

Well I am glad you are mature enough to question whether it is love or not... At 14 most people think they know everything...

I cant speak for your feelings, but I honestly dont think you are in love.

You are in a sticky situation however with these two boys.

So you say both boys like you. You like one boy more than the other, and the one you like more you have this special relationship with...well I dont see where the problem lies here...the guy you have the special relationship gives you more right?? you have a stronger relationship with him right...so he seems like the wisest choice.

At your age and for the rest of your life you are going to learn more and more of what to look for in a guy. you are going to grow a lot too, and your whole view on life will change as you do. you are still so young, so dont take these relationships too seriously. If they really are something special then they will be there for years to come...but most of the time when you are still growing up, your going to want to move onto new things, new friends and new relationships.

Right now the best you an do is keep the good head on your shoulders and dont try to grow up too fast.

As for which boy to choose... be with the one that treats you the best and makes you the happiest...

Best of Luck!