I have a boyfriend who i love and i thought i was IN love. we have been going out for 8 months. Im 16 and hes 20. Hes amazing, he buys me what i want, takes me where i want to go. My family loves him. Hes everything anyone could want in a guy. Hes ready for a long term relationship, and I thought i was too... until I went to Flordia a couple weeks ago. I was gone for 3 weeks. I cheated on my boyfriend for the first time. But i fell in love with his guy I meet down there. Hes so fun, hes funny, he nice, repestful everything that my boyfriend is, but my boyfriend is boring, we dont do anything besides the movies or a freinds house, i cant talk to other guys, he gets really really jealuos. The problem is, dont want to leave my boyfriend for someone who lives in Flordia when i live in Michigan. Me and this guy have talked... he really wants to be with me, but theres no way for us to be together. I dont want to break up with my boyfriend and lose the best thing in my life, expectailly after right beofre i went to flordia, I wanted a promise ring, and he got me one... what do i do???

college4u

First U Already Cheated Which Means U Really Dont Love Him U Might Love Him But Not Realy Love Him. U Should Either Be Honest Or End The Relationship U Dont Have To Settle For Less Qualities In A Guy Dont Limit Yourself And Dont Be With Him Jus To Pass Time Cause There Is A Girl That Could Proably Love Him All The Way. Long Distance Relationships Never Work Everyone Knows This. Jus Date As Of Now And Wait Till U Find An All Out Connection With A Guy U Really Feel.

Baby_Gurl0093

ur young so your gonna meet plenty of other guys out there and dont blame yourself for the way you feel. love only last so long but i dont think you should stay with him. you should tell him how ur feeling confused and you dont know what to do. if he really loves you he wont put pressure on you and he should help you through this in the end though it all comes down to how ur feeling do u really think you want to be with ur current boyfriend for the rest of your life?

shygrneyzs

You are like the cow in the pasture, chewing on the green grass and wistfully looking over the fence at the other green grass, thinking it MUST taste better than what you have right there in front of you.

You want both guys on the hook, don't you? Then at least be honest with yourself and then honest with these young men. Don't play your boyfriend for a fool, which is what you are doing right now. You just might get what you wish for - to be free and go to the other guy.

You say this bf you have now is "the best thing." You obviously do not think so, or you would not be entertaining thoughts of the other guy. There are red flags all over this.

Read back to your words describing your bf's behavior - jealousy, don't do anything, can't talk to other guys, etc. Do you really think an over possessive guy is "the best thing?" I don't think so. What reason does your bf have to be so jealous? If you can honestly say there are no reasons, then you need to think about getting out and over him. No matter what he buys you. That is just cheap of you, to accept gifts from him and say you are in love with this other guy you met in Florida.

MayMsredrose

Am sorry to say this but what you have done made me resentful ....Excuse me for what am going to say....but you are so selfish you do not think of anyone but yourself...you only cares for what you want and your advantage but you do not care for the man who really cares & loves you ...who gave you everything you want and you know it's very rare nowadays to find such a person who is serious in his relationship and does not take an advantage from you then break your heart.... You do not love anyone but yourself.... The best thing you do to be honest with yourself and think over what do you want in your life putting in your consideration others feelings....

Ms. Redrose

Dakkota55

i think thatyou should tell him what realii happend in flordia...its better 4 him to find out 4m u now then to find out by some1 els later and u loose everything! if some1 did that to u,u would at to noe rite??? tell the trueth and see where it gos from there

mckenzie134

your just a hoar and dont deserve your bf hope he finds out or you catch some disease...

shizukamelodi

thats soo horrid dont tell me you sliped up once?! come on be resonable like she said it only happened once. if she just tells her boyfriend what happened and worked it out with him; if she doesn't love her boyfriend she doesn't have to be with him.

She is no hoar! a hoar is someone who s diffrent men without caring! She obvoiusly likes the two guys and doesn't mean to hurt them.

so leave her alone you bully!

mckenzie134

iF SHE DIDNT WANT TO BE WITH HER BF SHE SHOULD HAVE BROKEN UP BEFORE SHE SLEPT WITH THE OTHER GUY. sHE JUST WANTS TO HAVE HER FOOT IN BOTH DOORS. sHE DOESNT WANT TO BE LONELY SO DOESNT WANT TO LEAVE HER BF JUST IN CASE

Fr_Chuck

First a 16 year old has no business dating a 20 year old, what type of parents allow this, I think they need to be reported first and foremost since thier lose behavior is part of the cause of all of this.

If you are being with someone else, do your other boyfriend a favor and let him find someone that will be true to him