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Old May 13, 2008, 12:26 AM
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i have been seeing this guy

I have been seeing this guy for 2 1/2 months now and we do really good together . We spend alot of time together. He calls me all the time just to hear my voice , but when ever hes on the phone and someone would ask him where he is he would say he's at a GOOD FRIENDS house. What do u think that mean help me please

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Old May 13, 2008, 04:41 AM   #2  
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it's only been 2 1/2 months, maybe he's not ready to call you girlfriend, but you're not exactly just a 'friend' either? so 'good friend' makes a bit more special than just 'friend'-

if things are going well, and you feel like the relationship is progressing, maybe talk to him about it? bring it up without being too agresive- maybe joke with him and say 'am i really a good friend'?
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Old May 13, 2008, 04:58 AM   #3  
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You can't force a man into anything he doesn't want to do. Let him come to you when the time is right. I think what he is doing is wonderful....why rush??? If you feel that you and him are really good together maybe being more than friends and less than lovers is a great place to be at after 2 1/2 months.

Wait another month in a half, and if he doesn't come around by then....GO FOR IT!!!

The best relationships always begin as friends...you learn more.

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Old May 13, 2008, 01:21 PM   #4  
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You're looking for some way to interpret "good friends" in a bad way. Stop that. Be good friends, for as long as you can.

So many people start dating officially and completely stop being friends. Don't let that happen to you, even if you two do end up together in the end.

Friends forever, baby, GOOD friends. After 25 years, 23 married, my wife is still my best friend.

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