Long story short: Dated a girl at college for 2 months before summer started. We moved really fast and I did fall for her. We both got out of tough relationships in the winter. I was over my ex and she had me convinced she was over hers. She wouldn't accept his calls, threw away the pictures, etc. Very cold to him. Summer came and she cried in my arms before leaving since we would be 5 hours apart for the summer.

She gets home and gets bombared by the ex. He tries to kiss her at some party and she pushes him away and he starts calling her names. She calls and I help her. I recommend that she not go to parties where he is at. She views this as me controlling her. Things eventually fell apart and we've been broken up for about a month.

She called me once 2 weeks ago to talk and emailed me Saturday asking how I am.

I found out today that she went to the beach with her ex one day and they are "talking". I don't know...From what I've seen from her actions and what she has told me, she is not interested in dating him. She had me under the impression that she just wanted to be alone and get over him so she could come back to me...maybe she is just trying to see if that's dead? I dont know..

Also, she started rapidly texting me last night (something that hasn't happened in awhile), asking me about my life and things of that nature which lasted for about an hour.

What do you think of the situation? School is 7 weeks away.

N0help4u

Sounds simply like she is not strong enough to stand up to her ex so she is basically back with him even if not officially. she is in denial even to herself. Very likely when she goes back to school she will then want back with you. Its called whatever is convenient at the minute and not being able to make up her mind.