The hard quesiton, IS LOVE ENOUGH?

malice92 · Jul 15, 2008, 12:49 PM

Is love enough? Dated this girl, lived with her for 4 months, til she couldn't find a job here. So she moved back home for a job.

I have kids so i can't go with her otherwise I would have. Did the long distance thing a while broke up last Jan.

Seemed like we were sort of moving on. Then out of the blue she calls and wants to get together again rather spontaneous over the 4th and now i'm totally in love again, can't shake her. I know she feels the same way but doesn't want a relationship, mostly cuz the long distance relationship, we had taxed our friendship a LOT so i think she's afraid of that actually.. I dunno.

She is actively dating nothing more than a first date it seems. I was until I saw her again, broke off all of that.

Do i:

Just try to move on

Be happy being her friend we are (best friends) until something more can happen (maybe); If she starts seeing someone i know i'll be crushed and be forced to move on.

Wait it out a bit and see if her mind changes?

I've expressed how I feel, told her that I don't mind a long distance relationship that we can make it work etc.

Thanks,

-G (i'm 33, she's 26)

JBeaucaire · Jul 16, 2008, 09:10 AM

Whether it's "love' or not isn't relevant. It takes a lot of things OTHER than love feelings and I see you already know that.

Tal is right, enjoy your friendship. Don't stress over it.



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