I mean, wouldn't you like if the roles were switched?! : ) Guys will keep trying to get with a girl they think is pretty, they don't give up! : P Wouldn't you like that?

AKaeTrue

I think it all depends on if the guy likes the girl doing the pursuing...
if so, he would probably like it.
If not, he probably wouldn't.
Just like us girls

biggsie

I find it very flattering when a girl pursues me. Knowing she's interested helps guys
who really have no clue how she feels about him, used to rejection. no no no


Be unpredictable very flirty and go back and forth with pursue a little then back off and make him chase you... it's fun, and you change tease and then play hard to get.. in a fun "i'm just messing with you" .... it creates great chemistry.

so chase, and be chased... don't settle for one. change it up, and make sure to initiate sometimes too!

gsusisking

Ha!!! Thanks!! We'll I want to talk to this guy (can only myspace him though since the only other place to talk to him would be at his job, and I can't do that! To many peps around ) anyway, I wrote him a [paper] letter and had it sent by someone to his place (I've since re-thought that since I didn't do it myself), anyway, I soon found out he was taken, though in my opinion, he showed interest in me, (either talking to me about the cool shirt I had on, or I'd catch him staring and then quickly look down when I looked up, trying to talk to me some how, etc) but I never got a response from the letter, obviously due to the fact he had a girlfriend, but, I do think he's single now and I want to try one more time. What do you think, aren't those the things you do when you are interested in a girl? Shouldn't I try again?

Sesame89

Okay... I am 18 and yes i pusrue girls. I am pursing a girl now. It feels like the wrong thing to do because the roles are switched but.. I dunno... We do pursue.

cerisa

If anyone is too persistent it comes across as stalking. Not good.

tyler56

i like the persuing

kp2171

its great chasing a girl, and great to be chased. i have always, always dated and been most attracted to women who were confident and unashamed to go after what they want.

and in those cases when i was somewhat attracted to a woman, but maybe on the fence... if i had a hint that she was interested back, it always amped up my interest.

not all guys think alike. no guarantees.

but in my book, a confident woman is one of the sexiest things in the world.

put me to the wall, honey, and ill chase you down right back.

Simple Asian

lol...well for me i dont like playing game ...especially "play hard to get " lol if they play that they better just take their heels and run on their own XD

i like girls who just simple and speak their mind and not playing game ^^

lengkyx

confidence is good. girl can ask a guy out. but if he disagrees, she should also show grace. never let them see you sweat. you've done your part, didn't work, move on.

so there should be a balance.