so i've been talkin to this guy; we really connected on a lot of different levels; good conversations; had a lot in common we even started making thots about travelling n things. he said he was really into me. we flirted over the phone like crazy and he wanted to meet up.. he gave me the idea that we were going out.. we were supposd to keep it onthe down low ... we went on a date..we had fun, talked etc.. but he didnt kiss me!.. this was funny cuz the past 2 guyz i went for were just phyically attracted to me and all they wanted was SEX so i backed out of both; but with him i have a connection but hes distancing himself frm me now... later that nite he tells me i MISUNDERSTOOD us to be goin out!!?! so we had ended up arguing and he stopped talkin to me, he couldnt back his own statement!

anyways i've just been reading his blogs lately and in one of his old blogs hez mentioned how all girls he meets are either 'fake' or 'desperate'. i honestly dont think i did anything to give him the vibe of me fallin into either of the two categories; i dont know how to approach him now; hez not gonna call me cuz he thinks im really mad at him (i think hez scared of me..heh); but i dont want him thinking im desperate if i talk to him now aftr that.. ! he already has this notion that most single girls he meets are just desperate..

fix-what-you-broke

yes but thats like me saying that all men are cheats...not the case right? he can have his oppinion on it but it doesnt make it true.
call him, talk to him, just say you had a great time on the date and was wondering if you could do it again sometime, if he says no then its his problem not yours.

alyssa071

hmm yea im jus gonna wait a week n then call if he hasnt talkd to me by then... thnx hun!

Fr_Chuck

And not all internet hook ups live up to what the other thinks it would be.
He may not have felt any connection when he meet you personally, it can happen. And in such a case it would appear he was and had enough respect not to do sex withsomeone just for the sake of having sex. Which is what alot of men on the internet do, they go out have sex and then never call.

alyssa071

well this wasnt an internet hook up... we met thru friends before.. we always got along..jus didnt get to kno eachother on a personal level cuz we were always around other ppl too... but all this happend aftr i started talkin to him one-on-one..that happend over the net... so yea it wasnt completely new either really!

Washington1

Keeping it on the down low! Was this what you wanted?