My girlfriend and i have been dating for 9 months and all the sudden while she was at the gym she met this girl. and now all she talks about is how this "girl" listens to her, how they "connected" and even that the thought about kissing her passed through her mind. i told her is normal to think other women are attractive and that is just curiosity...but she says that, if she hangs out with her she might end up making out with her....should i be worry??

jrebel7

You shouldn't worry. You should just exit the relationship. No more relationship, no more worries.

She has just admitted to desiring to be unfaithful to you. "Walk and Block", walk out of her life and block her out of your mind.

There are a lot of girls out there who would desire to be in a faithful relationship, full of love and trust. Why short yourself in this journey through life? You shouldn't.

lovinglemons

Yes, I'd follow his advise. But First u gotta explain it to her. Let her know that she's being unfaithful and that u want a serious thing (I don't how serious but though)...keep in mind that if both of u are aware of what a relationship is and u make some sort of commitment, is because ultimately u care to work on every obstacle that put in ur life. If u care a little tell her so that both of u learn something on the way...this our life full of changes for the good of all

Clough

She could also be giving you a hint about some things that she is missing in her relationship with you that she might be seeking to have fulfilled with someone else.

Please communicate with her as to what you are thinking. Having good, open communication is paramount to having a successful relationship with someone.

Just a thought.

PopcornSunshineKisses

It could just be feelings i think its normal for that to happen in everyones lifes maybe talk to her more about issues she has in the end shes been with you for a long time so you shouldnt worry too much its probly just an emotion that will pass