Girlfriend states that she dont love me anymore

Rolandas · #1 May 4, 2007, 07:03 AM

Hello,
i was dating with girlfriend for 1 year .A week before she said that she want to have a break(smth similar),because she only loves me like friend and nothing more.She is also very said about that.She says she wants freedom,because she had enough of that.I love her so much.What should i do?Leave her,dont write to her and so on,and wait when(if) she comes back?What could i do to revive love?She really loved me..

P.S. Sorry for english

Rina _4 · May 4, 2007, 07:47 AM

I don't understand. "i was dating with girlfriend for 1 year .A week before she said that she want to divorce?"
Are you dating this woman or is she your wife?

Rolandas · May 4, 2007, 07:59 AM

She was my girlfriend.Sorry for language again

Rina _4 · May 4, 2007, 08:37 AM

If she really loves you then she will come back. Give her time and you will find out.

Rolandas · May 4, 2007, 08:43 AM

She already said,that she dont love me..

CCPofJoplin · Sep 18, 2008, 01:44 PM

I'm having this same problem right now..
I've dated my girlfriend for nine months and she told me she wanted a break..
before that we had been fighting more and stuff..
last night she told me she wasn't in love with me anymore and didn't feel like it was right..
i feel like i can get her to love me again if we spend time together..
i feel like she is just confused about her emotions..
i'm also like her third boyfriend so i don't know.. maybe i'm wrong about everything..
this truly sucks..

inloveandhopele · Sep 20, 2008, 11:37 AM

I can tell you guys that I am like your girlfriends. I too have been in a long term relationship and I have fallen out of love with my guy. It is a conglomeration of things that causes this. For me, it was not feeling important. Not being a priority. Don't get me wrong, I love my space too, but when a night of drinking with the guys, or baseball games, or concerts become more important that hanging with me, it takes its toll. A girl wants to be respected, and shown that she is special. Girls see the little things, and it says a lot to them. We think totally differently than you guys.

CCPofJoplin · Oct 20, 2008, 08:01 PM

yeah.. i know what you mean..
but i'm really not like that..
she was my only priority.. so maybe that's what did it.
i don't know.. i guess i'll get over it..
she won't talk to me anyway..
but i do still miss her....

i don't know if i should try and talk with her
or if i should just totally cut myself off from her..

like should i be like hey what's up or should i
stop talking to her sister (who i'm good friends with..)
stop looking for her in the halls and
stop thinking about her entirely..

don't know..



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