My girlfriend is confusing

shaladaa · #1 Feb 23, 2007, 12:13 PM

Hey everyone...heres my situation...

i got a girlfriend last wednesday...on valentines day....

we are both shy ....but we have kissed and cuddled and all that,

But just today...she kinda blows me off.....like shes fine when were alone....at her house and stuff,,,,,but once shes around other people she changes...like she doesnt like me.....

im gonna call her and ask her whats wrong....

i get a feeling were going to break up?

kristynn · Feb 23, 2007, 03:26 PM

It may sound harsh, but maybe she's just using you ?! I can't really tell cause I don't have all the details.

OR

She's simply TOO shy around other people.

shaladaa · Feb 23, 2007, 07:20 PM

well...i asked her out....

if that has anything to do with it..

also.....

she talked to my friends girlfriend...she says its like this "I do like him...but its like one day i like him then the next day i dont"

soooo what?

shaladaa · Feb 23, 2007, 07:28 PM

well....kinda hard to stay away when she goes to my school...so like....

my friends pressured me to get a GF.....

i like her...(not just cause my friends want me to)

i still want to go out with her..but im the kinda guy that doesnt deal start arguments and fights in relationships....im not very emotional.

kristynn · Feb 23, 2007, 07:35 PM

Do you really like this girl? Does she really like you?

OR

Are you together ... just because?

How old are you by the way?

shaladaa · Feb 23, 2007, 07:39 PM

im 17 years old...

i do like her....

at first it was an akward situation...seeing as how were both kinda shy to each other...but after a few days we have gotten more comfortable with each other,,,

most of my life i havent really cared for a girlfriend....now i try it and it gets taken away (i still havent called her so im not sure)

/sigh at life

kristynn · Feb 23, 2007, 07:42 PM

It seems to me that you are both very confused somehow.

But you did not answer my questions... ?

shaladaa · Feb 23, 2007, 07:54 PM

my friend just talked to her on the phone and i was on it...i didnt say anything....but i heard them talking...

she says she just "has nothing for me",,,,but she kept saying "why do you wanna know" to my friend,,,so im not sure if shes gonna say it all...

what could i have done to piss her off? im nice as hell to everyone...especially someone thats dating me...

and yes i do like her ...i do not LOVE her.....because you cant love somone in such a short time.

AKaeTrue · Feb 23, 2007, 09:34 PM

You probably didn't do anything to piss her off. If the two of you didn't know one another very well before you started going out, it's quite possible that within this week of dating, she may feel that the two of you have little in common.
This may not be the case though... You never know until you call her. Listening in on conversations will only leave you with more unanswered questions...
Just be brave and go for it, don't let it get you down if it doesn't turn out the way you'd like... It's good experience for the future...



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