When I was in eigthgrade I became a very good friend of this girl, we always spoke to each other until the end of the year the next year we didnt spoke at all and then in 10th grade she came to me. I knew that she wanted something more than just friendship so asked her on a date and then asked her to become my girlfriend, I was so happy and loved her so much. We sometimes had problems but not so serious, with time I was jellous about her speaking to her friends and got angry at her she spoke to me after 3 months and a half of being together and told me that things wouldnt work out any more, I asked her for a second chance and she gave it to me. From that day I always spoke to her and continued getting angry at her but made her feel sorry for what she had done and she did the same thing to me. The same day of our fifth month she went on an trip from school and after she came back I was angry at her because I knew that she had had fun with her friends and maybe she didnt miss me so much. We spoke after that and fixed everything I told her I was sorry for that. The next day I went to her house but things didnt seem to be working out well so we spoke that we should stop getting angry at each other so that everything could continue as it had alwys been. After I went to my house and called her and continued talking, I told her all the things about her that made me angry and so did she do. That same day when I was at her house I want to play a little though with her but her mother noticed that she was being hurt by me. The next day she called me and told me that her mother was crying for this and that she was wanted more space, she wanted to be back with her friends since she couldnt be with them for 5 months at any time, I always wanted her to be with me and only speak to me. The next day Feb. 26 she was speaking to her friends when I got to school and she was different with me she ignored me and went with her friends after that I spoke to her and asked her what she really wanted. She told me that she wanted to be with her friends and go out with them and she wanted to break up but I told her to think about and be with her friends for a period of time and then decide on what she wants to do, either be with her friends and break up with me or come back to me. I dont know what to do I havent spoke to her for two days. During this 5 months I got to know how much I loved her and she always was happy with me everything was great we spoke about going to the same university and living to gether forever but now everything has changed, she doesnt want even to tell her that I love her. PLEASE HELP ME I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO

kristasia32

i just broke up with my ex recently and i love him..so much but you are making your self look too open like shes your everything and thats a turn off to most girls...maybe she got tired of the same things all the time you know when you talked it was just i miss you i love you too and yeah that can get boring..just because hse is having fun with her friends doesnt mean she doesnt miss you i bet you were the first thing that poped in her head in the morning and the last thaught before she went to bed.. dont act desprate dont try and tlak to her a frendly converstaion maybe when you see her in the hall like a head nod or a hello but dont be like take me back i need you and i love you come back to me one more chance thats a huge turn off and alot of girls are not attracted to that im only 16 you can show you care about her and want to be with her just dont tell her that eveyday im sure when she is ready to come back she will girls show they care to a certain extend but dont make it worse i understand you love her and want to be with her because i still want to be with my ex but give it time dont call her when she comes on msn dont be the first to say hey yes it can be hard but it shows that you dont rely on her you can be strong with or without her and that is what girls like a strong independed guy not somone who calls 24/7 begging them to get back together with them no just give it time let her come to you