i met her over the internet and moved out to her and i kind of didnt tell her everything about me so when i got there she found out how i was. she was hurt that she became heartbroken. but yet i am still in love with her.

bluerose

She trusted you and you deceived her. That is not something that can be fixed with a ‘sorry’. But you could try it anyway. Perhaps write or send a card. Let her know how you feel and how sorry you are that you were not upfront with her.

Avoid lamenting about how you feel and let her know you know how you made her feel and, if given the chance, would like to prove how much she means to you.

There are no guarantees but you do owe her an apology.

Scleros

I think there is a difference between intentional deceit (e.g. lying about your age, kids, married) and simply not bearing your entire soul and life history to someone. He didn't say if they were planning on getting married. Also, I think it's completely ridiculous that a woman would be completely crushed after meeting the Internet man she's been communicating with for the first time if she finds out he has kids or whatever and she didn't ask. Get a grip.

shygrneyzs

We do not know what exactly this guy withheld information about. It does appear that it was a conscious decision to omit certain information and for that, yes, you owe her an apology. My question - how honest and forthright was she in her information sharing?

teddybearbigboy

she was not as forth coming with information about her. i found out that she still loves her ex husband. that completely killed me. when i found out i tried to let her go but i cant.