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Old Nov 8, 2007, 12:36 PM
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is this guy shy or not interested

this guy knows i like him- a third party told him. ive never caught him looking at me and he doesnt try to initiate conversation. hes never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. there was alot of drama around this whole thing- basically his friends (whom are extremely immature) tried to play matchmaker when they found out I like him and after a night when we got a bit drunk and flirted (he def flirted with me), nudging him on and calling him oblivious. They had good intentions but it backfired. He told his friends he doesn’t like me. so he doesnt like me then right?
im kinda surprised he doesnt cause after that night he left me 2 voicemails saying "Hope u got back to your room OK, Ill IM you tomorrow" and he did (he was sober doing this and has never done it before) his friends never pressured him into doing that (he never told his friends he did that.) They said he didn’t mean anything by it. I dunno ive been told im prettier than the past girls hes liked. I have had a lot of guys (albeit the wrong type) like me. (he doesnt know this though) I like him cause hes a great person and seems like he wouldn’t go for a girl for sex.

The day he found out that I knew he doesn’t like me back he said hi randomly a few times but I don’t think that means anything. he always says hi to me in passing, but he usually did before. he def. looks at me differently, though I think its just awkwardness. if he liked me he'd try to be closer to me right, even if he was confused/skittish about it? its been awhile, so im thinking he doesn’t.

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Old Nov 8, 2007, 12:41 PM   #2  
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Sweetheart I have found in my life that the best way to find out how someone feels is to just ask them. Your young and have nothing to lose. why put yourself through all this and wonder how someone feels. Walk up to him and say, hey are interested or am I reading you wrong. Dont be demanding, be friendly. You may be surprised.
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I agree with Kanicky. Just ask the boy. What do you have to loose but a lot of stress and sleepless nights lying awake wondering if he likes you. Good luck hon!

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kanicky73 agrees: Thanks, its really the only way to find out instead of all the he said she said
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